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Passionista

The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man

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Passionista

Written by: Ian Kerner
Narrated by: Ian Kerner
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Transform Yourself from "Passion Victim" to Passionista!

In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual "ill-cliteracy," and women everywhere benefited from his "viva la vulva" philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, it's time to learn all about what turns men onand makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, "blow-by-blow" guide, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about. His advice is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in a guy's skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.

Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista is the empowered woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest

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Someone needs to tell Ian Kerner to stop narrating his own books. He has such a grating, unsexy voice. On top of that, this book is full of “questions” and “stories” from people, mostly women, who have supposedly come to him for advice and every single one seems made up. Also, I’d be much more interested in hearing the perspective from men. And why does he need to include the person’s apparent occupation in each quote?? Annoying and unnecessary.

But my biggest beef with this book is it puts the onus on women for things that are simply out of their control. Make sure your man is healthy, he eats well, gets exercise, gets a good sleep. Like we have control over any of that. Also, the techniques described make the assumption that the key to pleasure for all
Men is for the woman to take control. This leaves no room for the many men who actually prefer to be dominant in the bedroom.

I only read this as I had credits to spare. I already listened to She Comes First so should have known better.

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I was curious to educate my mind to a wider perspective but I should have learnt from the prequel to this book.
Content good✅ voice too painful to continue to listen to.

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