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  • Written by: Jancee Dunn
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  • Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (182 ratings)

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How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids

Written by: Jancee Dunn
Narrated by: Jancee Dunn
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A hilariously candid account of one woman's quest to bring her post-baby marriage back from the brink, with life-changing, real-world advice.

How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids tackles the last taboo subject of parenthood: the startling, white-hot fury that new (and not-so-new) mothers often have for their mates. After Jancee Dunn had her baby, she found that she was doing virtually all the household chores, even though she and her husband worked equal hours. She asked herself: How did I become the "expert" at changing a diaper?

Many expectant parents spend weeks researching the best crib or safest car seat, but spend little if any time thinking about the titanic impact the baby will have on their marriage - and the way their marriage will affect their child.

Enter Jancee, her well-meaning but blithely unhelpful husband, their daughter, and her boisterous extended family, who show us the ways in which outmoded family patterns and traditions thwart the overworked, overloaded parents of today.

On the brink of marital Armageddon, Dunn plunges into the latest relationship research, solicits the counsel of the country's most renowned couples' and sex therapists, canvasses fellow parents, and even consults an FBI hostage negotiator on how to effectively contain an "explosive situation". Instead of having the same fights over and over, Dunn and her husband must figure out a way to resolve their larger issues and fix their family while there is still time. As they discover, adding a demanding new person to your relationship means you have to reevaluate - and rebuild - your marriage. In an exhilarating twist, they work together to save the day, happily returning to the kind of peaceful life they previously thought was the sole province of couples without children.

Part memoir, part self-help book with actionable and achievable advice, How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids is an eye-opening look at how the man who got you into this position in this first place is the ally you didn't know you had.

©2017 Jancee Dunn (P)2017 Hachette Audio

What the critics say

"Jancee Dunn blends marital advice from real experts with her down to earth folksy wit in Hot Not to Hate Husband After Kids. If your husband has a better relationship with his phone than he does with his baby, you need to hit him with this book - and then ask him to read it." (Jen Mann, New York Times best-selling author of People I Want to Punch in the Throat)
"Part memoir, part self-help book, Jancee Dunn's How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids offers relationship research combined with personal anecdotes. Strategies learned from therapists, friends, and even an FBI hostage negotiator help Dunn heal her marriage - and set a good example for her kid." ( Real Simple)
"This book is a very valuable addition to the whole huge transition to becoming parents. This book can help preserve the greatest gift you will ever give your baby: a loving relationship between the baby's parents." (John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work)

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great book with some practical tips

narrator is great. enjoyed listening to the book. would like to apply some tips in life.

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Made myself a better wife so my husband could be t

Very funny, makes your problems a lot less dramatic .Good advice and informations. Funny and relatable stories.

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Easy applicable suggestions. Has depth without droning on. Going to be listening to a second time with spouse. A little cuss-y so I suggest not to read around little ears

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Just want I needed to hear

A wonderful blend of humour and education. I feel I can use the tools in my day to redirect my relationship. Thanks for writing this real talk book.

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Must listen!

So funny, I loved this book. Jancee Dunn really touched on everything that I was feeling but didn't know how to express!

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Great book with simple, but effective tips

I loved the way it was told through personal experiences. You may initially think some of the tips and advice are basic, but I was surprised how much actually following these small changes, we so impactful. I related to the author a lot. Fun to listen to as well.

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Well done!

Super well done book. Applicable and real advice. Worth the read and the stories are great.

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So many great, realistic, easy solutions

Jancee touches on all of the big issues that come up after kids and all gives realistic and easy solutions to the problems that any couple can do!

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Great book!

I really enjoyed this book. It was my first audio book experience and it did not disappoint. It took me a while to get used to the writers voice and pace, but once I did, it kept my attention well. I liked the flow of the book with the first half being a rally of women/mom's etc. and the second half being more practical strategies / self-help approach. I laughed a lot. Shook my head a lot. Was baffled by statistics a lot. Learned a lot. Reflected on a lot. Took a way a lot. My only complaint was not being able to take notes while listening and driving! I'll be re-listening with a note pad!

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Skeptical at first but so good!

When I first read the title, I was a little skeptical.
But after having 3 kids… I wanted a book with a little humour. This book is quite funny, and so much more. I highly recommend this book. It is well written and well researched.
It has actually made a difference in my marriage. I like how validating the author is and that she also looks at the situation from the husbands point of view.
I was sad when the book was over.
Thank you Jancee

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