In this episode I'm talking about the word "should"

Now it might seem a bit much to talk for nearly 17 minutes about 1 word. But language and how we use it is really important. So today I'm talking about why the word "should" is osmething you should avoid. It helps no one, not you. not your horse, and certainly not clients.

In this episode I'm talking about the time I worked with a Paralympic rider.

The thing I learnt while working with her, the diffiuclties I had working with her, dissapointments I felt, thing I really enjoyed while working with her and the experience I got working with the horses she gave me the opportunity to work with and learn from.

Regardless of anything I'll always be grateful to Bert and the things she taught me, the horses she gave me access to work with and the opportunities I had.

In this episode I'm talking about the difference between hot horses and stressed horses.

So do hot horses exists? Or are people just passing off high levels of stress and excusing it with "it's just a hot horse"?

I talk about how these horses are created, from breeding to ridden work. I talk about the horses we lose to stress and poor practices that are normal in the horse world when they shouldn't be.

Explosive horses should NOT be normal, whether it's how they've been bred, raised, trained or physical pain that the horses are going though.

Being able to recognise pain in horses shouldn't be as hard as it is. Being able to tell the diference between a disregulated horse emotionally and whether the horse has kissing spines should be easy to do, because disregulation in horses shouldn't be as common as it is. I shouldn't have a job fixing as many horses as I do.

Horses should be set up to win in life, the number of horses that don't make it to maturity either due to behavioural issues, or behaviour induced injuries is astounding, and it shouldn't be happening.

Horses that retire are often in their late teens early 20's and sometimes late 20's. Why should be lose all that learned knowledge to a retirement field or retirement livery?

More horses that retire should end up raising young horses. Rather than purchasing a weanling to pair with the filly/colt you're weaning, you should be putting that youngster in with an older horse.

We don't leave toddlers to raise toddlers and we shouldn't be leaving foals and yearlings to raise foals and yearlings. None of them have any understanding of the world, how to behave around other horses, how to behave around people.

Furthermore, most retired horses when I've met them, often look very defeated, like they've lost their purpose in life. Rather than retiring them completely, they should still have a job, and in my opinion, the best job for these horses would be to raise the next generation of horses.

I would have far less horses to work with if more horses were raised around a good variety of different horses, mixed ages groups, mixed sexes, mixed personalities.

Horses should be Raising Horses!

I know this might be a strange title from someone who works using natural horsemanship methods.

I've come to this conclusion from working with many different horses and creating these problems in my own horse in the past.

In this podcast I talk about the issues that natural horsemanship can cause, and how to prevent them.

Natural horsemanship is largely a training methods designed to train effective working horses on ranches, meaning there are gaps when it comes to training horses using natural horsemanship methods for English riding. This isn't to say it cannot and should not be used when training horses for English riding, it just means that adjustments need to be made to the methods to suit English riding. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and with the adjustments made, natural horsemanship, in my opinion, is the best way to train well rounded, relaxed and happy horses across the disciplines.

In this episode I am talking about Ginny and why I named my business after her. I talked about her a lot in the "My Journey" Episode but I didn't go into much detail when I talked about some of the things she put up with from me, the guilt I feel surrounding her, where she is now, what my logo means, and how I came to the decision to name the business Horsemanship from Ginny, often creating confusion surrounding my name and people thinking I'm called Ginny.

Ginny has had a huge influence in my life and still does, even now, 15 years after I first met her, I can look back on my life, and still go through things in my ife, and the people who re the most important to me in my life, she is still a direct link as to why they're in my life and how much of an impact she has had over me and will continue to have over me throughout my life as I continue on this journey.

I will be forever grateful for this mare coming into my life, despite the neglect she went through due to my ingnorance and lack of funds to really be able to look after her properly. She never asked for much, just to be treated fairly and I often fell shirt of that, which I will always feel sorry for, but the lessons I learned from her I take forward in my life, in my personal relationships, in my training and relationships with the horses I own now, and the clients horses I get the pleasure to work with thanks to the path this very special mare sent me on.

In this Episode I'm talking about Fernley. A beautiful bay Gelding who really struggled with a lot in his life.

From loading, to general handling, which would bleed into his ridden work. He has some health issues in his life which made life harder for him, and quite sadly lead to his death.

Thank you to Beth who gave me permission to tell Fernley's story, while I could talk for hours and hours about Fernley and all the things he found difficult and how he had to learn pretty much everything from scratch again, that horse tried his heart out for me and tried his absolute hardest for me everytime.

Fernley was easily the hardest horse I've met in my life to work with, but the physical issues he had made it hard to know why he was so difficult until it was too late unfortunately.

RIP Fernley

The One, That Tested My Patience

While watching videos of many of the trainers that are out there, you might've heard the phrase "Make the wrong thing hard and the right thing easy".

But what does that actually mean?

Well that's what I talk about in this episode, giving several examples, reasons why it works, ways it can be done wrong, and why it doesn't mean simply beating on a horse, kicking or pulling them about. Why it's not about removing choice from your horse, but it actually gives them a choice to make, while guiding them to do the things we want them to do.