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  • The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
  • Written by: Emily Nagoski
  • Narrated by: Emily Nagoski
  • Length: 11 hrs and 53 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (347 ratings)

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Come as You Are

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Publisher's Summary

An essential exploration of why and how women's sexuality works - based on groundbreaking research and brain science - that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joy.

Researchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a "pink pill" for women to function like Viagra does for men. So where is it? Well, for reasons this book makes crystal clear, that pill will never exist - but as a result of the research that's gone into it, scientists in the last few years have learned more about how women's sexuality works than we ever thought possible, and Come as You Are explains it all....

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2015 Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. All rights reserved. (P)2015 Simon & Schuster, Inc. All rights reserved.

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absolutely amazing

Everyone needs to read this book! Female and male! I have been recommending it to everyone! It has given me a lot of information to share with others to help bring more positive sex culture in my life and theirs. It has has such useful information whe it comes to human sexuality, how tonnavigate it, how to communicate it. 10/10!!!

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Interesting read

I enjoyed listening to this book. Hearing the science and the views on how we all have accelerators and breaks and the varying combinations we have.
I was disappointed with what I concluded ... which was you basically can’t change your biology much.
It didn’t leave me a wow everyone is normal feeling that others describe. It left me a bit with a is that all you’ve got kind of feeling.

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You need this book!

Life changing research!! I had no idea how my own body worked before this, I can't recommend this book enough for both women and men. I had to buy the print version as well so I could re-read and highlight.

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I relearned so much with Emily!

great down to earth approach to what is and what shouldn't be expected with our female counterpart.
Lovely humour and abrasive some time to us guys.. but we had to expect it someday!

Thanks Emily for all the information and opinion given to subjects too many times being hushed and misjudged by too many men and women.

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Excellent!!

I loved this book and have referred it to many woman in my life!!

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Thank you Emily!

Such a great, reassuring, informative, metaphor-rich, relatable, and enlightening book. I Highly recommend it.

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eye opening!

Wnderful listen, tons of great info , great writing tied together beautiful! loved it so much.

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insight

So much insightful information about sex, your body, genitals, our mind and how humans work. All around fantastic book!

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Really good!

This book really normalizes your sexuality in all its uniqueness. As a counsellor, I also really appreciated all the psycho-education on feelings and feelings about feelings and how much this all connects to our sexuality and sexual relationships. And as someone who did not get a great sex education growing up, this was really informative and a book I wish I had read early on!

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Changed my life

Incredible book. I have recommended it to just about everyone I know. So important for for women and those who want to give pleasure to women to understand these concepts.

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