How does dirty sex talk benefits your relationship? How often do you feel that your partner is no more interested in you? Does he ignore you and takes you for granted?

Well, if that’s the case with you, then you really need to do something about it, and learning some dirty sex talk may do the trick.

Totally hot sex games you can play - in the bedroom

If you haven’t already tried to add some juice to your sex life with sex games, what are you waiting for?

It’s a chance to bring out your competitive side for good, have some lighthearted fun with your partner, and have some really great sex at the same time.

Playing sex games - whether you’re a new couple or one that’s been together forever and are trying to spice things up - is almost guaranteed to be a fun time. Unlike real games, there aren’t really any winners or losers when it comes to sex games.

The odds flip so often, and with only two players, you can both be super-engaged the whole time. Giving can be just as gratifying for someone, as receiving is for another. As long as you and your partner are on the same page about the odds at stake and both just wanna have some lighthearted, slightly competitive (or very, TBH) fun, it’s time well spent.

Now you must be thinking what should you do to get the attention of the guy you love. To understand this more, it is important to take a look at the four different elements of your speaking voice.

These are:

• Resonance
• Relaxation
• Rhythm
• Pacing

To get a good understanding of these important aspects, buy this book!

Dirty talk for women

For the ladies wanting to use dirty talk with a guy it is important to bear in mind the following tips:

• Lower your voice slightly
• Slow down your speech and use strategic pauses
• Test the waters first with a little ambiguity and suggestive phrases
• Turn up the heat and use more sexually explicit words once you see he is enjoying it

Dirty talk for men

For men, the techniques of the erotic talk are similar; you want to start by slowing down your speed of talking and begin to talk in a slightly deeper (but not excessively exaggerated) way.

The technique of inserting strategic pauses in your language is also highly effective when used on a woman, so be sure to use this also as is the technique of resting your lips on her mastoid process (as mentioned above) is also highly effective once the two of you move closer together into the intimate zone.

Men should also be sure to:

• Lower your tone and allow your voice to deepen and vibrate
• Start off slow and use sexual ambiguity to create intrigue
• Aim at getting her insatiably curious about what you are going to say next
• Avoid explicitly dirty words until/unless she uses them first
• Don’t be vulgar
• Use implication and suggestive language rather than directly stating what you want to do to her of what you want her to do to you

Buy the audiobook to know more!