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How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
- Narrated by: Tamara Marston
- Length: 2 hrs and 7 mins
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Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance.
It would take weeks of therapy to learn what Successful Rebuilders know:
- How to avoid the potholes that doom marriages after affairs
- Critical guidelines for the first hours after discovery
- Fifteen essential steps for repair after betrayal
- Skills to cope with your partner's obsessions and "triggers"
- Ways to undo the damage from your lies
- The keys to avoid prolonging your spouse's agony (and yours)
- The difference between helpful and harmful apologies
- How to rebuild your broken life, relationships, and integrity
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your Library section along with the audio.
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- Kindle Customer
- 2022-03-08
Good Advice
I'm not religious but the çontent is definitely worthwhile for the unfaithful and the faithful. ( I listened to it because my partner cheated and said he was listening to it)
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- Amazon Customer
- 2021-08-12
Great Insight
Very good guide on navigating the aftermath of an affair. Practical advice on this.
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- Anonymous User
- 2021-01-10
Def listwning to this again
loved this audio! related and helped explain both parties. And advice on "how to" has been extremely informative
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- JackAss
- 2020-07-13
Cheaters read this book!
This book lays out what the cheater needs to do if he wants to rebuild his relationship.
It supports what women need after having their hearts crushed and world destroyed.
This book can only help men that are capable of empathy and putting their wife’s needs and hurt before their own selfish entitled self.
Often the men who cheat come from a dysfunctional family and can’t see past the end of their selfish nose to actually be able to support their grieving spouse.
It backs up and gives another voice to the horrible trauma of lies, disrespect and cheating and is a guide for the cheating husband to help his wife heal. This is his ongoing job and to be done on the victims own personal timeline. By choosing to cheat you are choosing to abuse someone that loves you. It is never a good idea for anybody.
Women need to stand together rather than go after another’s husbands and allow him to use her.
Have expectations and demand respect as well as give it back when deserved.
Be your best you and make the right choices and if you are reading this book cause you cheated then you owe it to your partner to fix that and your pathetic self!
It takes a lot for a women to pick herself up and put one foot in front of another to move forward. Cheating causes PTSD. How can she trust her husband or any other man after being screwed over in the cruelest way possible.
The very least a cheater can do is read this book as well as the other women that cheat with these men. Don’t be persuaded by lies to take your clothes off. Being used should not be a turn on.
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- Rob & Kris
- 2019-05-10
A good step to learning
This allowed for a greater understanding of what is required for an unfaithful spouse to help promote healing in the betrayed spouse. A good step forward and many more to come.
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- Crystal
- 2023-08-20
Good information
This book is good for both people in the relationship. Points to rebuild and examples are given and explained well.
Over all good read.
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