A bold framework for successfully navigating complicated interactions at work and at home—by one of the first leadership coaches to infuse her work with an equity lens and propose spaces for connection that require both accountability and generosity.

We all have that moment we wish we could do over. Maybe it was a comment you made at work. Or a look you gave a loved one. Or a time you bit your tongue when a colleague said something that just didn't sit right. These moments can cause real, lasting damage, and they are what Aiko Bethea calls "the bullsh*t": bullsh*t that happens when we get misaligned with who we aspire to be. But there is an alternative—a way to live intentionally. Because, as Bethea tells us, bullsh*t can’t be fought off. But it can be transcended. Through her "Anchored-Aligned-Accountable" framework, Bethea shows us how:

Transformation requires that we are anchored in our values, our intention and impact are aligned, and we are accountable to ourselves and others.

Bethea takes listeners through real-life scenarios from her career as a leadership coach, showing us how to re-think our "mess-ups" as moments that offer us a choice: We can shrink away, make a halfhearted apology, and refuse to enact change in our approach—or we can apply a new framework to alter our entire mindset and quality of life.

Full of practical insights and journaling prompts, Anchored, Aligned, Accountable teaches us how to intentionally lean into our fears and learn from our mistakes. With a witty, engaging voice, Bethea invites us to embrace connection over competition, empathy over pity, and vulnerability over ego, so that we can become the version of ourselves that we truly admire.