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A cozy glow should never come with a knot in your stomach. We unpack how dementia changes a person’s ability to read risk and why that makes open flames a hidden hazard, even for families who have used candles safely for decades. Drawing on years of in-home occupational therapy, we walk through clear, compassionate steps to keep the mood, the ritual, and the beauty—without the danger.

We start with the real reasons candles become confusing: familiar objects can be misread, routines can trigger unexpected actions, and a wandering moment can turn a small flame into a big problem. From there, we offer practical, low-effort swaps that feel just as warm: LED flameless candles that flicker convincingly, remotes and timers that build predictability, and lighting strategies that soften glare and settle the room at dusk. If scent matters in your home, we cover safer options like electric wax warmers and diffusers, plus placement tips to avoid burns and spills.

Rituals still matter. You’ll learn how to keep evening rhythms alive by turning on flameless candles together, placing a soft light by a favorite chair, and using timers to cue bedtime without extra steps. We also answer a common question about outdoor spaces—why patios and porches need the same no-flame rule—and share weather-resistant alternatives that look great and keep everyone safe. The throughline is dignity: preserving beauty, control, and comfort while removing risk so caregivers can breathe easier and loved ones can relax.

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