Boss or Bitch? Power, Labels, and the Cost of Confidence

What happens when a woman stops playing nice and starts leading?

In this episode, we get real about the labels women are handed the moment they step into power. Confidence becomes “attitude.” Leadership becomes “aggression.” And being a boss suddenly earns you a name you never asked for.

We talk openly about the mean girl myth, workplace competition, and why women are often punished for the very traits that make great leaders. Drawing from our own experiences in law, business, politics, and single motherhood, we break down the emotional cost of confidence and why owning your power is still worth it.

This is a conversation for women who’ve been called too much, made to feel small, or judged for wanting more. We’re rewriting the narrative, choosing sisterhood over competition, and reminding you that if your confidence makes someone uncomfortable, that’s not your problem.

Because power isn’t the issue.

Fear of it is.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The real difference between being a boss and being labeled a bitch
• Why name calling usually means you’re winning
• The myth of “mean girls” and why women aren’t the real competition
• Single motherhood, sacrifice, and unrealistic expectations
• Workplace sabotage, emotional maturity, and protecting your power
• Why your only competition should be your past self

If you’ve ever questioned yourself because someone couldn’t compete with you let us be clear: you’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing it loudly.