Read: 1 Samuel 23:14-18

“I’m quitting basketball,” Tyler announced flatly as his dad entered the room.

“Quitting?” asked Dad. “But you could hardly wait to join the team!”

Tyler frowned. “I’m just a benchwarmer. Coach Adams hardly ever lets me play.”

“Well, no, he hasn’t yet, but he told me you have great potential.”

“If I’m so great, why doesn’t he let me play more?” asked Tyler.

“Because the older players have more experience, and Coach Adams is naturally going to use his best players when it’s necessary for a win.”

“I can play as well as they can,” Tyler said. “At least, I could if I got to play in more games. Basketball is almost over for the year!”

“Just be patient,” said Dad. “We all need to wait patiently sometimes.”

Tyler crossed his arms. “I’ve waited long enough!”

Dad scratched his chin. “Do you remember King David in the Bible? He was a benchwarmer too.”

Tyler rolled his eyes. “Dad, King David never played basketball! It didn’t exist back then.”

“No, but you could say he was a benchwarmer for a long time. When David was just a young boy, the prophet Samuel anointed him to be king, but he had to wait about twenty years before he actually became king.”

“Yeah, but being king is an important thing, and it was something God said would happen,” Tyler said. “I don’t think God really cares if I play basketball or not.”

“I think He does,” said Dad. “He gave us our gifts, and He uses them to shape us to be more like Jesus. Learning to play basketball involves more than just dribbling and shooting. A good player also knows when it’s best to take a shot or pass the ball, and that requires skills that take time and patience to develop. I think God is using this experience to teach you to be more patient. Then you’ll be a better basketball player and a more mature Christian.”

Tyler nodded thoughtfully, then stood up. “How about a little one-on-one, Dad?”

Dad smiled. “You’re not quitting?”

“Not me,” said Tyler. “I love basketball, and I want to keep getting better.” He grinned. “I just hope it doesn’t take me twenty years to get into more games!”

–Joyce R. Lee

How about you? Do you feel like a benchwarmer? Perhaps your coach isn’t letting you play or your parents won’t let you do something you think you’re ready for. When things like that happen, remember that Jesus uses everyday experiences to shape you to be more like Him. Think about what He might be teaching you in the situation you’re dealing with. Then trust Him to give you patience as He helps you learn and grow.

Today's Key Verse: But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT)

Today's Key Thought: Learn to be patient