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Tuesday Talks: Getting the Sex You Want in a Swap | Episode 94

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions.

This week, they get a text from an experienced woman in the lifestyle who’s been struggling to communicate what she wants and needs during intimate encounters — and worries that coming across too strong might be hurting her connections. Dan and Lacy break down the fine line between confident communication and being perceived as bossy, and share nuanced advice on how to express desires in a way that feels sexy, respectful, and effective for everyone involved.

Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or well-seasoned, this episode is packed with practical tips on communication, confidence, and how to advocate for your pleasure without killing the vibe. Don’t miss this candid conversation on getting what you want — and doing it the right way.

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