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The Science of Self Talk: How to Increase Your Emotional Intelligence and Stop Getting in Your Own Way

Positive Psychology Coaching Series, Book 18
Auteur(s): Ian Tuhovsky
Narrateur(s): Randy Streu
Durée: 1 h et 37 min
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Talking to ourselves - and learning to listen

We all speak to ourselves on a daily basis. Whether it’s out loud or an internal (or infernal) commentary, we all practice self-talk, and how we speak to ourselves can have a significant effect on our emotions and subsequent actions.

Some people’s self-talk is mostly about the future while, for others, it’s an internal dialogue about the past. Some self-talk is positive and upbeat, while other self-talk is harsh, critical, or defeatist. Self-talk can focus on other people, but, more often than not, it is about ourselves - and is often negative.

If you listen carefully, you’ll notice that your inner conversation reflects thoughts and emotions. Self-talk isn’t random. It exhibits patterns that repeat themselves. And everyone has their own characteristic self-talk that is uniquely theirs.

In The Science of Self Talk, mindfulness expert Ian Tuhovsky explains how we can rewrite the script when it comes to our internal communication. Through a series of simple exercises for use in daily life, you can understand your own self-talk in order to change the conversation.

This unique book covers:

  • Constructive self-talk and dysfunctional self-talk - and knowing the difference
  • The impact of negative self-talk
  • Learned helplessness
  • Positive self-talk - challenge or threat?
  • The Pareto Principle which says that, for many events, roughly 80 percent of the effects come from 20 percent of the causes
  • Creating the right circumstances for motivation
  • Getting to know yourself
  • Loving yourself - emotional intelligence
  • Turning down the volume on your self-talk

Self-talk is a little like turning on the director’s commentary on a movie. You can simply watch the movie, or you can add in commentary about what’s happening in it - this is, in a nutshell, what most of us do in our daily lives. The Science of Self Talk can help you to rewrite the script of your movie and improve the way that you - and others - see yourself.

©2018 Ian Tuhovsky (P)2018 Ian Tuhovsky

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Inspiring

A really concrete book, with lots of useful exercises to really work on you. A quick win for anyone looking for a change.

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  • Rabbit
  • 2019-03-19

Enjoyable

I enjoyed this audiobook. The writing was easy to follow and the narrator presented that well. Useful tactics. Cheers!

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  • Amber Wyne
  • 2019-08-01

i found some very helpful points of this book.

there was very interesting veiw points in this book. and would recommend it to friends and family.

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  • Dawn
  • 2019-07-28

actually helpful

I found this book to be written in a very practical way, and was therefore genuinely helpful. The first chapter wasn't necessary for me, but the rest of it was so good I listened twice. Highly recommend.

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  • Greg
  • 2019-07-13

Very helpful

What a great, practical book on self talk. I finished this book encouraged and equipped with new tools.

Thanks to the author for creating this content and sharing it with us.

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  • Jason p staub
  • 2019-06-30

Fantastically said and easy to follow.

Loved it and I hope there are more to follow. The book touched on many things I do that I realized I must correct related to negative self talk.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 2019-06-03

Good Overview of Subject Matter

I have done a lot of research in this area lately. I feel the book was a digestible summary of the basic concepts for someone who has not thought about negative self talk much. I liked the suggestion to think of your inner thoughts as some type of "Crazy Uncle Joe." That kind of helped me re-frame the voice and not take it so seriously. The book is a good starter pack for an average interested reader.

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  • Vvirginia
  • 2019-05-04

The best book ever. Knowledgeable straight forward and very easy to understand

This book is incredible...I started feeling better just by listening to the content...I keep listening the book several times after the first day even repeated the characters. I would recommend purchasing this book!!! Best ever. Straight forward and simple ideas.

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  • Phil
  • 2019-04-21

Wisdom...to the point

Great little book! A lot of great stuff in a small package. Highly recommend. in fact, I ended up buying the paperback.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 2019-04-14

This helped my negative thinking so much. <br /><br /><br /><br />

The part about labelling negative dialogue and family members was great. A great read. Straight to the point. Relatable and honest.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 2019-04-02

Short and sweet

A very quick and helpful introduction to the topic that inspires more research. It includes great practical ideas to start using off the bat.
I found the Narrator very pleasant to listen to as well.