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 10 Reasons How Being Selfish Can Negatively Affect Your Marriage First and foremost, I will give the meaning of selfish: (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. Now, I will give the meaning of selflessness: concern more with the needs and wishes of others than with one's own. Now, I will give you 10 rreasons how being selfish can negatively affect a marital relationship 1. Being selfish instead of selfless to trust your spouse based on your own insecurities and doubts could definitely damage or even ruin the marital relationship. 2. Being selfish instead of selfless can damage communication empathy, transparency, patience, and respect toward one another. 3. Be selfish instead selfless will hinder one or both in the marriage to listen attentively reasonably, logically, honestly, with genuine concerns. 4. Also being selfish instead of selfless will cause frustration and possibly hinder or disrupt one or both in the marriage feelings, concerns, vulnerabilities. Therefore don’t selfishly tare down a spouse or each other because it will most likely lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and psychological, plus mental, and emotional distress. 5. As well, being selfish instead selfless can hinder and deter a couple from bonding, growing, and having a deep connection in their marital relationship. 6. Being selfish instead selfless can also create toxicity, depravity, rejection, and regret in the marriage 7. Being selfish instead selfless in a marriage can cause the me, myself, and I syndrome plus narcissism and gaslighting. 8. Being selfish instead of selfless in a marriage can put more pressure on one of the spouses or both if there is a lack of transparency, accountability, unity on how responsibilities are handled in all aspects of the marriage. 9. Being selfish or self centered in a marriage instead selfless will affect how conflict and disputes can be resolved and marital needs met with contentment and without unrealistic expectations. 10. Being selfish in a marriage instead selfless can affect how you appreciate, value, honor, and respect each other. In closing, so it is your responsibility as a husband or wife to examine past experiences, upbringing, your motives, intentions, mindset, indoctrination, influence, or anything else that could be swaying you into being selfish instead of selfless toward your spouse. Remember, it is about you honoring your vows toward your spouse and your spouse doing the same toward toward you. Likewise, it will reciprocate you both into fulfilling each other needs because you are making it about each other and not about self. Therefore, the husband will take care of his wife needs and the wife’s will take care of her husband’s need within the confines of their marital vows unto each other.
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