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16 | Feeling Forgotten? The truth about God's Love in the silence of "I Don't Matter"

16 | Feeling Forgotten? The truth about God's Love in the silence of "I Don't Matter"

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 Have you ever felt like your presence only matters when you're doing something for someone else? Maybe you've spent years showing up for everyone - listening to their struggles, meeting their needs, celebrating their wins. But when it's your turn? When you're hurting or exhausted or just need someone to see you? The room goes quiet. The phone doesn't ring. And you tell yourself, "It's fine. I don't need much." If you've learned to be "low-maintenance" and the easy one who doesn't cause problems, or if you've been making yourself small and invisible just to keep the peace - this episode is for you. Episode Description If you've been living as though your needs don't count, you're not alone - and you're not too much. Today we're exploring one of the most painful hidden barriers of religious trauma: the belief "I Don't Matter." Through Debra's story - from having major decisions made without her voice to discovering that God wasn't the one making her invisible - we'll uncover how religious environments can teach women that self-sacrifice means self-erasure and that asking for help is selfish. You'll discover how Jesus treated every individual as supremely valuable through His divine healing methods, and learn that the sacred parts of your soul were meant to be cherished, not trampled. This isn't about becoming more demanding - it's about discovering that you matter completely, not because of what you accomplish or how perfectly you serve, but because God placed immeasurable value on you when He created you. In this episode, you'll discover: → Why minimizing your needs and making yourself invisible keeps you disconnected from authentic care - and how to recognize when you're doing it → How Jesus' far-seeing intuition took in the necessities of each person's case - from the blind man to the bleeding woman to Mary and Martha → The sacred parts of your soul that were meant to flourish in safety, to be seen with tenderness, to be valued without performance → The revolutionary truth that just as a baby doesn't have to earn her parents' care, you don't have to earn God's attention and love → One simple act of self-care this week that reflects your inherent worth - not because you earned it, but because you matter Healing Truth You matter completely - not because of what you do, but because of who you are. Jesus' far-seeing intuition still takes in all the necessities of your case. Your pain still moves His heart. Your needs are sacred to Him. The sacred parts of your soul that were meant to be cherished aren't too damaged for His healing touch. The woman who allows herself to be seen, who honors her needs without guilt, who receives care without feeling she must immediately reciprocate - she's not someone you have to become. She's who you've always been, waiting to be remembered beneath all the minimizing. Ready to go deeper? Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit - including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community - all completely FREE as my thank you for taking this brave step. Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com - a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand. In Milestone 8, study Jesus' divine healing methods and discover how to restore the sacred parts of your soul. Get all the details at TheComingHomeJourney.com. About Debra I'm Debra Schafer, spiritual healing coach for Christian women and founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle. For over seven years, I've walked alongside women who love God deeply but feel exhausted by religious performance and pressure. I know this path personally - I've had my voice dismissed and my needs overlooked - and I've seen what happens when women finally believe they matter: they discover they were always worthy of being cherished. Listener Love If this episode helped you see that you matter completely, would you share it with someone who needs this truth? And a quick review on Apple Podcasts helps more women discover that their needs aren't too much and their presence is a gift. This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and nurturing true connection, we help you experience God's love in the deepest way. Strengthen your relationship with a safe, loving God.
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