You’re doing all the “right” things, but why does it still feel like you’re performing your life instead of living it?

Why does everything start to feel heavy the moment you think about how it’ll look to other people?

There’s a quiet pressure to show up prepared, polished, and put-together...even when no one asked for that version of you. Maybe it shows up in your work, your routines, or the way you manage everyone else’s expectations. Underneath it, there’s this fear that if you stop trying so hard, you’ll be exposed as “not enough.”

In this episode you'll understand:

1. Why over-preparing might actually be blocking your best work (and keeping you from feeling like yourself)
2. The question that led to my biggest breakthrough: "What am I actually afraid will happen if I don't do this?"
3. How "performance mode" shows up differently for everyone — and why it all comes back to the same thing: safety
4. Small, tangible ways to stop filtering yourself (starting with what you wear and how you speak)

After listening, you’ll be able to slow down and ask, “What do I actually want right now?” - and trust that answer. Not perfectly. Just honestly.

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