As a new year begins, many women rush to set goals, habits, and resolutions — and yet so little actually changes.

Why?

Because most change doesn’t fail at the level of effort.
It fails at the level of identity.

In this episode, Eimear explores the idea of A Case of Mistaken Identity — the subtle but powerful way we stay loyal to outdated versions of ourselves long after we’ve outgrown them.

You’ll discover how old survival patterns, once intelligent and necessary, can quietly hijack your choices, limit your confidence, and keep you tethered to a life that no longer fits.

This isn’t an episode about fixing yourself.
It’s about recognizing who you are no longer being, and creating space for something truer to emerge.

If you’ve felt the quiet pull toward more clarity, self-trust, and agency in your life, this episode is an invitation to begin the year differently.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why goals alone rarely create real change
• How “mistaken identity” keeps powerful women stuck in outdated patterns
• The invisible loyalty we hold to an old self — and how to gently interrupt it
• What it actually means to choose yourself in this season of life
• A simple identity-interruption practice you can use anytime self-doubt shows up
• How midlife becomes a reclamation — not a crisis

Key Takeaway

You are not broken.
You are not behind.
You are not lacking discipline or motivation.

You may simply be living out a Case of Mistaken Identity — and once you see it, you can choose differently.

Reflection Question

Where in your life might an outdated version of you still be making decisions, and what becomes possible when you stop giving her the final say?

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