Conscious ageing women: resistance to what’s happening creates chronic stress that accelerates aging. Buddhist teaching that helps you accept aging without giving up after 60 changes everything.

The shocking truth: The harder you fight against getting older, the faster you age.
Your resistance is literally accelerating your decline.

The Two Arrows (Practical Buddhist Teaching):
First Arrow: Ageing itself—your body changing, things getting harder. This hurts. It's real.
Second Arrow: YOUR resistance to ageing. "This shouldn't be happening." "I hate this." "Why me?" This is the suffering you ADD on top of ageing.

Here's the insight that changes everything: You can't control the first arrow. But the second arrow? That's entirely in your hands.

What Your Resistance Actually Does:
- Creates chronic stress that shrinks your hippocampus (brain's memory centre), accelerates cellular ageing, increases inflammation, disrupts sleep.
- Makes you rigid when you need to be flexible and resilient
- Exhausts you—stealing energy you could use to actually build strength

The Paradox:
When you STOP fighting reality, you have MORE power to work with it.
Acceptance frees you to find creative solutions, adapt, and build real strength.
Acceptance isn't giving up. It's seeing what's true without adding suffering on top: "My body is changing. This is hard. I hate it sometimes. And that's what's happening."

In the video, I share a practical strategy to help you navigate the truth: You can hate getting older AND accept it's happening AND love who you're becoming.

Stop shooting yourself with that second arrow. Your resistance is ageing you faster. Acceptance is what slows decline.

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