Healing the Fixer Pattern and the Pain of Self-Abandonment

Have you ever poured your heart into someone only to realize you were the only one truly present? This episode isn’t about a breakup. It’s about the pattern underneath it. The pattern of performing care, translating silence, and calling it love.

In this reflection, I speak to the one who became the mirror…
Not to reflect her truth, but to reflect someone else’s pain.

Together, we’ll explore:

• Why you stay in relationships that don’t meet you
• The grief that comes with releasing the version of you who made herself small
• The identity of “the fixer” and how to lovingly let her rest
• A somatic practice to honor the part of you who tried to hold it all together

This is a sacred pause for the one who’s ready to stop performing healing…
and start receiving it.

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Three days to grieve a lifetime of love? That’s not grace. That’s deprivation.
In this episode, I explore the emotional and cultural weight of bereavement and why so many of us are never given the time, space, or presence required to truly heal.

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Grief isn’t just emotional… it’s relational. And too often, we are told to move on, return to normal, and “be strong” while carrying a loss that can’t be fixed in three days.

This reflection is for anyone who is navigating grief, presence, or ego death. Whether you're grieving the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a change in identity, or the soft, unseen losses of everyday life, this space honours the depth of what you’re feeling.

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#grief #presence #healing #spiritualgrowth #nervoussystemregulation #ego #love #bereavement #innerwork #yogapsychology #traumarecovery #selfhealing

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Have you ever caught yourself whispering, “I’m not enough”, not out loud, but somewhere deep beneath the surface of your life?

You may not always say it, but you feel it in the way you hesitate to speak your truth… in the way you overextend, overperform, or quietly pull away. It’s not just a thought. It’s a belief. One that was born in a moment when you needed love, presence, and safety… and didn’t receive it.

In today’s episode, we explore the wound beneath the words. You’ll learn why “not enough” isn’t a flaw in who you are, but a reflection of what wasn’t met. And more importantly, you’ll be invited back to yourself. Not to fix. But to feel. And to remember.

This episode includes a gentle breath practice to support you in meeting the places within that still feel tender, unseen, or alone.

If you’re ready to stop chasing enoughness and start living from the wholeness that’s already yours, this conversation is for you.

This is an invitation.
To return. To presence. To love. To you.

Watch the full reflection on YouTube.

If this episode spoke to something tender within you, I’d love to hear how it landed. You can leave a review, comment below, share it with someone who may need it, or simply take a breath and let it be part of your own unfolding.

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Share Your Reflections: Was there a moment that resonated deeply for you? I’d love to hear what stirred, opened, or softened.

Support and Share: If this episode supported you, consider sharing it with someone who may need this reminder. And if you feel called, leaving a review helps this work reach others, and I’m deeply grateful for that support.

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and inspirational purposes only and does not replace medical or psychological advice. For any concerns, please consult a qualified healthcare provider. Full disclaimer here.

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