This week felt heavy. With everything going on in the world and the sudden loss of Charlie Kirk, we wanted to sit down and talk honestly about something that every single one of us wrestles with: how do you actually disagree well?

Not just in politics or online arguments, but in your marriage, your friendships, and your faith.

We didn’t come into this episode with a script, just an urge to talk through what the Bible says about conflict, humility, forgiveness, and love when it’s hard.

Together, we walked through verses that keep us grounded (Ephesians 5:21, James 4:6, Proverbs 15:1, Colossians 3:13, Romans 12:15) and shared the real ways these play out in our own marriage, the messy arguments, the moments we’ve had to swallow pride, and the times we’ve chosen to forgive first.

This isn’t about winning debates. It’s about remembering that people matter more than being right.

It’s about guarding your words, choosing humility over pride, and learning to pause before you say something that can’t be unsaid.

We hope this conversation encourages you to slow down, reflect, and take a fresh look at how you handle conflict in your own life.

Because at the end of the day, we believe marriage, and every relationship, can be reset, refreshed, recharged, and restored.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

Most marriages don’t blow up with yelling; they drift apart in silence. It’s not the fights that break you, it’s the distance. The conversations you avoid. The nights you scroll instead of talk. The stuff you hold back. Silence convinces you everything’s fine when it’s not. And the longer you leave it, the harder it gets to close the gap.

Here’s the truth: strong marriages don’t just “happen.” Intentional couples don’t ignore the drift. They lean in. They start the awkward conversations. They ask the hard questions. It’s uncomfortable, but it’s what keeps a marriage from quietly falling apart.

In this episode of Amplified Marriage, we’re talking about what marriage drift actually looks like and how to fight it. We’re sharing:

• Our own story of drift (and how close we came to losing it all)
• How busyness and “normal life” can sneakily pull you apart
• Practical ways to close the gap (like the 10-minute pause and 15-minute couch time)
• Why conflict isn’t the enemy, but silence is
• How intentionality keeps couples connected for the long haul

This one’s real, it’s honest, and it’s for every couple that’s ever looked at each other and thought, “Is this all we’ve got left?” Spoiler: it’s not.

Episode Links & Resources

• Missed last week? Go back and listen to: “Sexual Intimacy: Why God’s Design for Sex Changes Everything.
• Email us your thoughts or questions: amplifiedmarriage@gmail.com. Join the Conversation

We’d love to hear from you:
What’s one phrase you use to start a tough conversation with your spouse? Share it with us.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

In this episode of Amplified Marriage, we dive straight into one of those topics that too many couples avoid: sex.

Yep, we’re talking about sexual intimacy in marriage. The myths, awkward expectations, and struggles that almost every couple encounters.

We look at how culture, the church, and even rom-coms have shaped the way people think about sex, often loading it with shame, guilt, or impossible standards. The truth is, God designed sex to be good, holy, and worth fighting for. This conversation is about resetting the story and living out that truth in marriage.

We pull apart some of the big myths, like “follow all the rules and your wedding night will be magical” or “sex is only for men’s pleasure.” We get honest about why those lies don’t hold up and why honest, ongoing conversations with your spouse matter so much. Silence doesn’t build intimacy—honesty does.

This episode is raw, practical, and full of encouragement for couples who want more than just going through the motions. We’re inviting you to laugh, learn, and maybe squirm a little as we remind you that intimacy is God’s gift—and it’s meant to be enjoyed.

Key Takeaways:

• Balance expectations with reality. Marriage comes with myths about sex that need to be unlearned if you want fulfillment.
• Talk about it. Honest conversations about what works, what doesn’t, and what you want build intimacy.
• It’s not just physical. Sex is a spiritual and emotional connection designed to unify and bring joy.
• Bust the myths. Lies like “sex is just for men” keep couples stuck—truth sets them free.
• Redemption is real. No matter your past, God’s design makes a thriving, joy-filled sex life possible.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

In this episode of "Amplified Marriage," we explore the idea of Experiential intimacy in relationships.

Remembering our personal stories, such as a chaotic family hike up Spion Kop mountain, we show how shared experiences, both exciting and challenging, can forge closer bonds between us as partners. We emphasize the importance of creating memories together through our adventurous experiences and navigating troubles side-by-side.

Focusing on experiential intimacy, we discuss how hiking, kayaking, travelling, or participating in community service can strengthen your marriage. We stress the importance of stepping out of our comfort zones, whether by trying new hobbies like pickleball or going on long-awaited vacations without the kids.

We also discuss overcoming life’s challenges, such as financial difficulties and losses, highlighting the growth and unity of facing trials together. Throughout the episode, we spotlight themes of intentionality and creative solutions for maintaining connectedness and fun in relationships, providing you with practical ways to amplify intimacy.

Key Takeaways:

• Experiential intimacy can be cultivated through ordinary and unique shared experiences, enhancing the bond between couples.
• Facing challenges together, such as failed businesses or personal losses, can unify couples and deepen their understanding of each other.
• Trying new activities and stepping outside routine comfort zones develop relational growth and sustained interest.
• Volunteering and serving in the community as a couple create shared memories and foster a sense of purpose beyond personal gains.
• Effective communication and intentional a

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

In this episode of Amplified Marriage, we explore the intriguing concept of intellectual intimacy within our marriages. We discuss how stepping into each other's intellectual worlds, even when filled with bizarre details or unknown interests, can bring about deeper connections and strengthen your relationship. This episode complements our ongoing Pillars of Intimacy series, which focuses on strengthening different aspects of intimacy between partners.

Intellectual intimacy might seem complex, but we try to break it down using relatable stories and some personal examples. We emphasize the importance of engaging in meaningful conversations, regardless of intellectual compatibility. We tackle the idea that couples don't need to share the same intelligence level or have all the same interests as long as there is mutual respect and curiosity about one another's worlds. By sharing a few easy-to-use strategies for sparking conversations and understanding each other's quirks, we want to offer you practical ways to cultivate intellectual intimacy and strengthen your emotional bonds.

Key Takeaways:

• Intellectual Intimacy: Engaging in thoughtful conversations and appreciating each other's unique interests strengthen relationship bonds.
• Diverse Interests: Couples don't need to share the same interests to connect intellectually; respect and curiosity for each other's passions are key.
• Effective Communication: Asking open-ended questions and showing genuine interest can lead to meaningful and engaging discussions.
• Shared Growth: Couples learn and evolve together through shared ideas and different perspectives, enhancing their intellectual connection.
• Adaptive Relationships: Embracing changes and exploring new interests keep relationships fresh and exciting.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

In this next episode of Amplified Marriage, We return after a hiatus to continue our series on the "6 Pillars of Intimacy." As we usher in the new year of 2025, our conversation focuses on an often-overlooked aspect of intimacy in marriage—physical intimacy beyond sexuality. We explain how simple actions like hugging and holding hands significantly enhance a healthy marriage relationship. Such gestures nurture love and trust, forming the foundation of a lasting relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• Developing non-sexual physical intimacy is crucial for nurturing emotional and relational bonds in a marriage.
• Simple daily actions like kissing, hugging, and hand-holding can significantly reduce stress and increase happiness through the release of oxytocin.
• Building a strong foundation in friendship and connection is key to sustaining a marriage through challenging times when physical intimacy might be limited.
• Open communication and understanding personal preferences for physical touch can help strengthen non-sexual intimacy and, by extension, the overall marriage.
• Modelling healthy physical intimacy behaviours for children is crucial and serves as a testament to the health of the parental relationship.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

What if you could transform your marriage by mastering the art of emotional intimacy? This episode of Amplified Marriage wants to equip you with the tools to feel truly understood, appreciated, and valued by your partner.

Through a few of our own personal experiences and real-life stories, we share how vulnerability and trust are the keys to overcoming barriers and building a strong emotional connection and why being present and attentive without distractions is crucial.

Reflecting on our 23-year remarriage journey, we explore the complex world of vulnerability and the importance of emotional support in navigating life's challenges. From managing financial stress to handling work frustrations, we share practical strategies for keeping open lines of communication and maintaining a safe space for sharing struggles in your relationship.

We chatted about how practices like "drive dates" and regular check-ins can prevent feelings of shame and frustration and learned the value of listening and validating each other's feelings.

We want our stories to guide you in prioritizing quality time and fostering a deep, emotional bond with your partner.

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook

Join us for a deeper dive into the crucial topic of boundaries in marriage. After a brief hiatus, we back with a fresh perspective and valuable insights to help you strengthen your relationship.

This episode explores the physical, emotional, social, and financial boundaries and why they're essential for a healthy marriage.

We share some personal stories and practical tips on how to set and maintain boundaries, emphasizing the importance of open communication, respect, and compromise.

Whether you are newlyweds or have been married for years, this episode will equip you with the tools you need to create a safe and fulfilling relationship with your spouse.

Key Takeaways:

• The importance of boundaries in protecting your marriage and fostering trust, love, and security
• Different types of boundaries and how they apply to your relationship
• Practical tips on setting and maintaining boundaries through open communication and compromise
• The consequences of not respecting boundaries and how to avoid them

Send us a text

Support the show

SUBSCRIBE

LIKE & SHARE

We want to hear from you. Stay connected to Amplified Marriage
Website
Instagram
Facebook