In this episode, I sit down with vocalist, composer, and guitarist Becca Stevens for a conversation that moved me in ways I honestly wasn’t expecting.

We start with life right now for Becca: juggling touring, writing, teaching, and “momming” two little ones. She talks about how becoming a parent has completely reshaped her artistry, forcing a new level of efficiency, deepening her sense of purpose, and shifting her focus from serving herself to serving the song (and her kids). There’s a beautiful thread here about how parenthood strips away the illusion that we are the most important thing, and how that shows up in her singing and writing.

From there, we go back to the North Carolina School of the Arts, where everything really changed for her. Becca shares how she went from being the misunderstood “class clown” to finding her footing in an arts environment, discovering classical guitar almost by accident, and realizing that music alone was more than enough for a lifetime of exploration. We also talk about how jazz became her teenage rebellion, and how a wildly diverse listening palette—Bartók, Steve Reich, Joni Mitchell, Björk, and more still fuels her fearless tendency to never stay in one musical lane for long.

Becca also takes us inside the creative process behind several key projects:

• The string quartet project with Attacca Quartet and the way those arrangements reshaped her own songs
• The intimate, live-tracked world of Maple to Paper, where it had to be one guitar, one voice, and total honesty
• The studio-crafted layers of Wonder Bloom, built from tiny seeds into full sonic collages

We dig into her deep love of collaboration and what it’s like to work with some truly legendary musicians, including Antonio Sánchez, Jacob Collier, Brad Mehldau, Scott Colley, and more. Becca talks about knowing when to serve someone else’s vision and when to step in with her own ideas. Whether that’s bringing original material to Antonio, layering vocals for Edward Simon, building a stop-motion fever dream with Jacob Collier for “Bathtub,” or stepping into Brad Mehldau’s world as both a fan and a collaborator.

One of the most powerful parts of this conversation centers around grief and Maple to Paper. I share how that album helped me process the loss of my dad—how it made me feel seen and validated in a way I hadn’t been able to put into words. Becca opens up about losing her mom, the complicated nature of parent–child relationships, and how those songs began not as “an album” but as a survival mechanism. We talk about what it means to write from that place of raw honesty, to resist tying everything up with a pretty bow, and to allow music to carry both grief and gratitude at the same time.

We close by talking about David Crosby and Becca’s time in the Lighthouse Band with Michael League and Michelle Willis. Becca shares what it was like to work with him so late in his life, to feel both the shock of his passing and the sense that his voice is still very much present in her writing now. As a lifelong Crosby fan, I share my own experience of grieving someone I never met but felt incredibly connected to through his music—and how, watching those performances with the Lighthouse Band, it always looked to me like all the roads in his career led to that chapter.

This is a conversation about artistry, parenthood, grief, joy, and the choice to follow authenticity over marketability—even when the “long, slow simmer” is the more challenging road. I’m so grateful Becca was willing to go this deep with me, and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

To stay in touch with Becca, visit her website.

Music from the Episode:
Be Still (Becca Stevens)

Reminder (Becca Stevens & the Attaca Quartet)

Cogs in Cogs, Part II - Song (Becca Stevens & Brad Mehldau)

Maple to Paper (Becca Stevens)

Thank you for listening. If you have questions, feedback, or ideas for the show, please email me at brad@thebandwichtapes.com.