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  • Starting Over After Trauma: Healing Functional Seizures, Limiting Beliefs, and Life After Divorce
    Dec 10 2025
    In today’s episode of Bent Not Broken, Coach Deborah explores a powerful starting over after trauma story with Samantha Mandell, whose journey through functional seizures (PNES) became a profound path toward healing after heartbreak, rebuilding identity, and reclaiming life.Samantha shares how her life-altering diagnosis led her to Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT)—a modality that accelerates emotional recovery, helps release limiting beliefs, heals broken relationships, and restores confidence in recovery. Her transformation inspired her to begin starting a podcast, step into her purpose, and help women navigate divorce healing, gaslighting recovery, and post-divorce life with compassion and courage.In This Episode, You’ll Learn About:How unresolved trauma can show up as functional seizuresWhy the body holds trauma and how RTT shifts the subconscious for post-divorce healingHow limiting beliefs formed in childhood affect life after divorce, dating, identity, and confidenceThe role of perfectionism in keeping women stuck in broken relationshipsHow RTT helps rebuild worthiness, trust, and confidence after divorceWhat real transformation looks like when creating new beginnings after divorceSamantha also shares lightning-round insights on navigating separation, establishing boundaries, finding post-divorce confidence, and remembering that even in hard circumstances, you are stronger than the pain.This episode is a powerful guide for anyone seeking divorce recovery, divorce empowerment, healing after separation, or rebuilding identity after divorce—and a reminder that you are never broken, only becoming.Connect with Samantha:SweetSoulAndWellness.comReady to rebuild your life after divorce?Join Coach Deborah’s Divorce Support Recovery Workshop on Eventbrite—your next step toward boldness and empowerment, emotional healing, and celebrating victories as you begin starting over with confidence.💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:Instagram: @BrokenToBoldnessFacebook: Broken to BoldnessLinkedIn: Broken to BoldnessDivorce Recovery Workshop: Click here to register.✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨
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    26 min
  • Divorce Healing Strategies: Dating, Co-Parenting & Moving Forward
    Dec 4 2025

    In this Bent Not Broken bonus episode, Coach Deborah reflects on her powerful conversation with retired police sergeant and bestselling author Patrick O’Donnell, who shared that after 30 years of service, nothing was more challenging than his divorce.


    This episode offers insight and divorce healing, guidance for starting over after divorce, navigating separation recovery, and rebuilding life after divorce.


    You’ll learn how to:

    • Navigate heartbreak recovery and healing after separation

    • Protect your children through co-parenting after divorce

    • Strengthen mental health after divorce and rebuild identity

    • Find confidence after divorce and embrace new beginnings after divorce

    • Approach dating after divorce and finding love after divorce with clarity


    If you’re ready to reclaim your life, move from broken to boldness, and begin rebuilding life after divorce, join Coach Deborah’s Divorce Support Recovery Workshop on Eventbrite (link in show notes).


    You may be bent… but you are never broken.


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness
    • LinkedIn: Broken to Boldness
    • Divorce Recovery Workshop: Click here to register.


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    8 min
  • Life After Divorce: A Police Sergeant’s Hard-Earned Lessons on Stress, Safety & Rebuilding
    Dec 3 2025

    In this powerful episode of Bent Not Broken, I sit down with Patrick O’Donnell — retired Milwaukee police sergeant, bestselling author of Divorced Dad: Kids Are Forever, Wives Are Not, and host of the Cops and Writers Podcast — to talk about life after divorce, starting over after trauma, and rebuilding a life from broken to boldness.


    Patrick shares raw insight on divorce healing, co-parenting after divorce, rebuilding identity after divorce, finding love after divorce, and stepping into financial independence and post-divorce confidence. This episode is your guide to healing after heartbreak, navigating separation, rebuilding confidence, and creating new beginnings after divorce.


    If you’re ready to move forward after divorce, reclaim your life, and start a new chapter with courage and boldness, this episode is for you.


    ✨ You are bent — not broken — and your life after divorce starts now.


    Learn more about Patrick:


    Website: copsandwriters.com

    Books (including Divorced Dad): Available on Amazon


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness
    • LinkedIn: Broken to Boldness
    • Divorce Recovery Workshop


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    28 min
  • Starting Over After Trauma: Healing From Gaslighting & Rebuilding Life After Divorce
    Dec 1 2025

    In this bonus episode of Bent Not Broken, Coach Deborah revisits the most powerful moments from her conversation with award-winning author and survivor Mia J. Hanks, whose memoir Bridemaid reveals the hidden reality of her nearly 30-year marriage to a covert narcissist.

    This episode is about starting over after trauma, healing from gaslighting, divorce and healing, and rebuilding life after divorce. Through Mia’s story, you’ll learn how to recognize control masked as love, trust your body’s warnings, and find the courage for post-divorce healing, emotional recovery, and new beginnings after divorce.


    If you’re feeling broken, navigating separation, or searching for hope after heartbreak, this episode offers guidance for divorce recovery, reclaiming your life, and becoming stronger than divorce.


    You may be bent — but you are never broken.


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    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts

    and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness

    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    6 min
  • From Broken to Bold: Starting Over After Divorce & Trauma
    Nov 27 2025

    In this special bonus episode of Bent Not Broken, Deborah Griffiths of Broken to Boldness shares her personal journey of starting over after trauma, heartbreak recovery, and divorce healing.


    After years in a broken relationship and healing from gaslighting, Deborah chose to reclaim her life, begin post-divorce healing, and step boldly into life after divorce. She shares practical recovery strategies for rebuilding identity after divorce, navigating separation, and building confidence after divorce.


    This episode offers guidance for anyone facing a divorce life transition, struggling with mental health after divorce, or working through parenting after divorce and co-parenting after divorce.


    You’ll gain tools for financial independence after divorce, insight into new beginnings after divorce, and hope for loving life again — when you’re ready.


    A powerful reminder: You may feel broken, but you can become stronger than divorce and create a bold new beginning.


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness
    • LinkedIn: Broken to Boldness
    • Divorce Recovery Workshop: Click here to register.


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    6 min
  • Broken to Boldness: Starting Over After Divorce & Domestic Abuse with Deborah Griffiths
    Nov 26 2025

    In this powerful episode of Law Enforcement Talk Radio, retired police sergeant John Jay Wiley speaks with Deborah Griffiths, founder of Broken to Boldness, about her journey of starting over after trauma, healing from gaslighting, and rebuilding life after divorce.


    After waking up in a psychiatric ward following a suicide attempt, Deborah realized her environment was destroying her mental health and confidence. That moment became her turning point. Through courage and resilience, she left her abuser, reclaimed her voice, protected her children, and began her path to divorce healing, emotional recovery, and rebuilding identity after divorce.


    Deborah shares insight into post-divorce life, co-parenting after divorce, financial independence after divorce, and how to find new beginnings after divorce. This episode is a guide to moving forward after heartbreak, healing broken relationships, and becoming stronger than divorce.


    A raw, honest, and hopeful reminder: even when you feel broken, you can rise, rebuild, and live boldly again.


    🔗 Learn more at brokentoboldness.com

    🔗 Learn more about Law Enforcement Talk Radio


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Starting Over After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?


    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness
    • LinkedIn: Broken to Boldness
    • Eventbrite Divorce Recovery Workshop:


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    34 min
  • From Pain to Purpose: How to Heal and Reconnect with Your Inner Child
    Nov 20 2025

    In this Bent Not Broken bonus episode, Coach Deborah reflects on her inspiring conversation with therapist and author Stacy Schaffer. Together, they explore how true healing begins when we stop trying to erase the past and start integrating it.


    💬 Key Takeaways:

    • Reconnect with your inner child by asking, “What did my younger self need to hear?”
    • Deepen relationships with the question, “Help me understand what it’s like to be you.”
    • Heal through awareness by noticing when your younger self is reacting.
    • Reclaim your story — your past may have shaped you, but it doesn’t define you.


    You may be bent, but you are never broken. 💖


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness
    • Eventbrite: Divorce Recovery Workshop


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    5 min
  • Acquired, Not Courted: Surviving 30 Years with a Covert Narcissist with Mia J. Hanks
    Nov 19 2025

    Award-winning author Mia J. Hanks joins Coach Deborah to share her powerful journey of surviving nearly 30 years with a covert narcissist—a partner who appeared perfect in public but was emotionally abusive behind closed doors.


    Through her memoir Bride-maid, Mia offers hope to survivors struggling to understand why love can feel like control. She reveals how writing became her healing tool, how shame keeps victims silent, and how true freedom begins with reclaiming your story.


    If you’ve ever questioned your worth in a relationship, this episode is a reminder:

    You were never too much. You were just with someone who gave too little.

    💡 “I hadn’t been courted—I had been acquired.”


    🔗 Learn more at miajhanks.com


    📖 Get Bridesmaid on Amazon


    💬 Enjoyed this episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce with Deborah Griffiths?

    Don’t forget to rate, review, and subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Spotify so more people searching for life after divorce, divorce recovery, co-parenting, dating after divorce, and healing from gaslighting can discover this empowering podcast. Every review helps others find hope, inspiration, and practical tools for thriving after divorce.


    🌐 Explore more resources: Visit BrokenToBoldness.com

    for coaching, workshops, and guidance on divorce recovery and life transitions.


    📲 Follow Deborah Griffiths for daily empowerment and support:

    • Instagram: @BrokenToBoldness
    • Facebook: Broken to Boldness


    ✨ Remember: divorce may bend you, but it does not break you. You are stronger than you think, and your bold new chapter starts now. ✨

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    17 min