The disclosure is done. The secrets are out. Now what?

If you’ve been through Full Therapeutic Disclosure—or if you’re still mustering the courage to start—you know this isn’t the end. It’s the real beginning. Because truth doesn’t just expose the brokenness… it reveals the path forward.

This is the second half of our FTD episode—where we walk you through the final 3 steps of the disclosure process.

• The Impact Letter: Her Voice Finally Heard
• The Restitution Letter: His Roadmap to Integrity
• The Slip & Relapse Plan: Trust Isn’t Blind

FTD doesn’t guarantee your marriage will survive. But it does guarantee this: No more living in the dark.

For the betrayed, it means the power to choose your next step with clarity.

For the betrayer, it means the chance to finally live in truth—even if it costs you everything.

Truth isn’t just where healing starts—it’s where you start living again.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 44. Fearing the Worst? How to Plan for Sex Addiction Slips & Relapses in Your Marriage Steps

Episode 111. Need a Full Therapeutic Disclosure After Infidelity? (Part 1)

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Marriage isn’t just a contract—it’s a covenant, a sacred vow before God and man.

But sexual betrayal doesn’t just break trust… it shatters the covenant itself. The foundation is cracked. The vows feel like a lie. And now, both of you are standing in the wreckage—one drowning in grief, the other paralyzed by guilt.

But here’s the truth: You can’t rebuild on broken ground. Before forgiveness, before reconciliation—before even deciding if this marriage can survive—there’s one thing that has to happen. The full, unedited truth. No more shadows. No more secrets. Because a covenant can only be restored where there’s nothing left to hide.

If you’re the betrayed partner, you’re drowning in questions—What else don’t I know? Can I ever trust again?

And if you’re the betrayer, you’re trapped in a prison of your own lies—How do I fix this? Will the truth destroy us?

Here’s the hard reality: without Full Therapeutic Disclosure, neither of you gets to move forward. The betrayed stays stuck in suspicion, and the betrayer stays stuck in shame. But there’s a way out—and it starts with one terrifying, necessary conversation.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 44. Fearing the Worst? How to Plan for Sex Addiction Slips & Relapses in Your Marriage Steps

Episode 51. Full Therapeutic Disclosure: 3 Steps to Healing and Freedom After Sexual Betrayal

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Have you ever stumbled upon a quote that just felt like it was made for you? You know, the kind that resonates so deeply with what you’re going through that it seems like a turning point in your journey?

We all encounter those special quotes that cause us to pause and reflect. While we’re not promising that your life will be changed by them, today we’re sharing with you some of our own special sayings—affectionately dubbed BBVisms!

You might even recognize a few from our show or from our coaching sessions over the last couple of years. Not only will you hear some of our (hopefully) memorable sayings; you'll learn the stories behind how we came up with each of them.

Join us for a mix of light-hearted fun and valuable insights as we share seven of our original quotes. We’d love to know if there’s one that you’ve embraced in your recovery journey!

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 09. I’m So Angry! How I Overcame Anger from Sexual Betrayal in 3 Simple But Not Easy Steps

Episode 36 | Recovery Step 7: Holding on to Pride? Humility Before God = Freedom From Pornography

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Episode 50. Are You Thriving or Just Surviving in Marriage After Sexual Betrayal

Episode 90. Discovering the Man Within: Sathiya Sam on Overcoming Porn Addiction

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In the tumultuous journey of marriage, trust is the cornerstone that holds this covenant union together. But what happens when this trust is shattered by sexual betrayal? How does a betrayed wife comprehend this new reality she never saw coming?

In today’s episode, we dive deep into these questions with the insightful perspectives of Robin Wilson and Christy Bottom, authors of their newly released book, Who is God Now: Hope In God After Betrayal.

Robin experienced the trauma of discovering her husband’s infidelity and has asked the hard questions; why, how, and who are you Lord? Through this painful journey she learned to understand God’s love, trustworthiness, and healing firsthand. Her sister, Christy, walked alongside her on that healing journey, consistently pointing Robin to Jesus and later encouraging her to write.

Whether you're navigating your own journey of healing or seeking to support a loved one through theirs, in this episode you’ll hear crucial insights into the spiritual and emotional aspects of recovering from betrayal. Robin and Christy share stories that are real, heartfelt, and unbelievably hopeful.

We’re so excited for you to hear this inspiring interview with these two precious women.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Website: RobinAndChristyWrite.org

Purchase their book: Who is God Now? Hope in God after Betrayal

Email: RobinandChristyWrite@gmail.com

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 96. The Message in the Affair: Self-Discovery After His Infidelity, with April Truitt

Episode 105. God, Where Were You When…? Questions in the Aftermath of Betrayal

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Have you ever stepped out in faith, trusting God’s call even when the road ahead looked uncertain?

Two years ago, we took that leap—surrendering our fears, our past hurts, and our plans, to follow where Jesus was leading us. And we’re here to tell you: God has been faithful. Not just in sustaining us, but in growing us—deepening our marriage, stretching our faith, and opening doors in ministry we never could’ve imagined.

This journey hasn’t been easy. It started in the wreckage of betrayal and brokenness, but God didn’t leave us there. He rebuilt. He redeemed. And now, looking back? We know that every probing question, every painful answer, every difficult moment we chose to surrender to the Lord, has brought healing to our marriage and prepared us for this journey that we call Beyond Broken Vows.

If you’re in that place of uncertainty today, wondering if stepping out is worth it? We want you to know that the hard work of recovery is definitely worth it and that God has a purpose for your pain.

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

The Healing Apology – Episodes #10 & #80 (request your copy at support@beyondbrokenvows.com)

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Episode 55. Our Podcast is One Year Old!!! Marriages Redeemed, Hearts Renewed

Episode 72. Praising God While in the Storm of Sexual Betrayal and Porn-Fueled Infidelity

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Infidelity profoundly shakes the emotional foundation of a marriage, often leading to feelings of confusion, mistrust, and pain. In the midst of all this chaos, it's common for couples to feel unsure of how to find their way forward.

In this episode, we’re excited to explore how the Emotions Wheel, based on Plutchik’s theory and Willcox’s tool, can be a wonderful resource for couples facing the aftermath of betrayal.

By using the Emotions Wheel, couples can start to identify and understand the complex storm of feelings they are experiencing and initiate meaningful conversations that pave the way for healing.

Join us on this journey toward greater clarity and deeper connection!

We pray this blesses you,

Johnny and Emily

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Emotions Wheel

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 13. His Triggers, Her Triggers – 4 Steps For Dealing With Triggers While Healing From Infidelity

Episode 52. What Is His Response To Her BIG Emotions After Porn-Fueled Infidelity?

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When sexual betrayal shatters a marriage, the deepest wounds often come with agonizing questions—especially about God’s timing. Why did He allow the lies to continue for years? Where was He when the vows were being broken?

In this raw conversation, we tackle the three most tormenting questions betrayed wives ask God, and the surprising hope Scripture offers both the betrayed and the betrayer.

This isn’t an episode about quick fixes. It’s about finding footing when your spiritual foundation shakes. Whether you’re the wounded or the one who caused the wound, God’s redemption meets you right where you are—not to erase the past, but to rebuild you through it.

If this episode met you in your struggle, your 5-star review helps other hurting hearts find this resource.

With love,

Johnny and Emily

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Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married”

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RELATED EPISODES:

Episode 79. Redeeming What Was Lost, Stolen, or Given Away Through Adultery

Episode 104. Sifting Through the Rubble After Infidelity Explodes Your Marriage

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