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  • 137 | Why I Can't Adopt Dogs
    Sep 22 2025

    🎉THE CALM DOWN, DOG! BOOTCAMP IS BACK 🎉— and I couldn’t be more excited.
    It’s happening October 7–8, and we’re diving deep into the real work of living with dogs — not just training them.

    In this episode, I’m sharing the real reason I got a new German Shepherd puppy… and the realer reason why I’ve been rejected by rescues and breeders more than once.

    Yep.
    Despite working professionally with dogs for over 20 years, I’ve had doors closed on me simply because I don’t subscribe to the “purely positive” training model.

    Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on:

    • Why I don’t train with treats or corrections — I train with relationship

    • How my pack helps raise balanced, confident dogs (including Gunther)

    • The difference between controlling behavior and creating trust

    • Why relationship-first leadership is more misunderstood — and more effective — than you think

    And yes… I’ll be teasing a powerful moment I caught on video that I’ll be sharing exclusively inside the Bootcamp.

    If you’ve ever felt like mainstream training advice doesn’t work for your dog — this one’s for you.

    Hope you enjoy this one!

    Tracy xoxo


    🐾👣 Next Steps:
    Join the Calm Down, Dog! Bootcamp of course!!
    beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp

    Special music credit to Shawn Trotter
    www.shawntrotter.com



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    33 min
  • 136 | Puppies, Planes and AHa! Moments: Unscripted Lessons In Building Dog Trust
    Sep 18 2025

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾

    In this delightfully spontaneous episode, we’re keeping it real because, well, life happens! I’m sharing a little behind-the-scenes peek into my world: the whirlwind of getting a new German Shepherd puppy named Gunther, a recent jaunt to England, and some curious insights I picked up about dog culture across the pond.

    “How interesting!” you’ll hear me say because it’s all about bringing that curiosity back home and letting it shape the way we build trust and leadership with our dogs.


    So, join me as I chat candidly about the ups and downs of this new adventure.

    It’s a bit of a mixed bag episode, but I promise it’ll be full of heart, a few laughs, and some thoughtful reflections on how to raise a confident, curious pup.



    Next steps👣🐾

    If you’re eager to dive deeper into creating calm and confidence with your own dog, don’t miss our upcoming Calm Down Dog Bootcamp!

    It’s happening October 7-9th, and you can fetch all the details at beyondobedience.ca/bootcamp.

    Let’s be the reason and the reward in our dogs’ lives, together. 😉

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    34 min
  • 135 | Beyond the Bark: Tools, Boundaries & Understanding {Series Part 3}
    Sep 15 2025

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
    Welcome to Part Three of the Beyond the Bark Series! In this final episode, we’re wrapping up my contribution to a recent article on barking with some of the most practical — and controversial — questions around the topic.

    Here’s what we’re covering today:

    • How furniture placement can actually reduce barking (yep, where your couch goes matters!)

    • Using tools like curtains, crates, and X-pens to prevent escalation and create calmer spaces

    • Why too much “free reign” often leaves dogs feeling like they have to control too much real estate

    • The controversial topic of bark collars, shock tools, and water guns — and why I believe leadership, fulfillment, structure, and boundaries should always come first

    • My closing thought: the key to everything with dogs is learning to understand them, not forcing them to fit into our human world

    This episode ties it all together and helps you rethink barking not as a nuisance, but as information you can actually use to lead your dog more clearly.

    xoxo,

    Tracy 💛


    👣🐾 Next Steps:
    If you want to understand your dog on a deeper level so that everything gets easier, join me inside the Fearless Framework. It’s where we break the fear cycle and build the kind of trust and confidence that makes barking less of a problem in the first place.
    👉 BeyondObedience.ca/fearless

    👣🐾 Bonus: Come join the free Living Beyond Obedience community on Facebook, where you can connect with like-minded dog lovers, ask questions, and share your journey.
    👉 facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience

    🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    36 min
  • 134 | Beyond the Bark: Puppies, Prevention & Adult Dogs {Series Part 2}
    Sep 11 2025

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
    Welcome to Part Two of the Beyond the Bark Series! In this episode, we’re tackling the questions about puppies and adult dogs when it comes to barking.

    As part of my contribution to a recent article on barking, I was asked:

    • With puppies, what can we do to prevent barking at things like the doorbell, the garbage truck, or people passing by?

    • What about adult dogs? Is it too late to train them out of barking?

    Here’s what we’re unpacking today:

    • Why the real key for puppies isn’t “stopping barking” but socialization and exposure

    • Why it’s absolutely not too late for adult dogs — yes, they can learn new tricks!

    • My go-to tip for helping your dog stop alert barking in real life situations

    This episode will give you practical steps for both puppies and adults so you can respond with clarity and confidence.

    xoxo,

    Tracy 💛

    👣🐾 Next Steps:
    If you want to understand your dog on a deeper level so that everything gets easier, join me inside the Fearless Framework. It’s where we break the fear cycle and build the kind of trust and confidence that makes barking less of a problem in the first place.
    👉 BeyondObedience.ca/fearless

    👣🐾 Bonus: Come join the free Living Beyond Obedience community on Facebook, where you can connect with like-minded dog lovers, ask questions, and share your journey.
    👉 facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience


    🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    23 min
  • 133 | Beyond the Bark: Why Dogs Bark {Series Part 1}
    Sep 8 2025

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐶
    Welcome to Part One of my brand-new Beyond the Bark Series! This is the first of three episodes where we’re digging deep into one of the most common (and often misunderstood) dog behaviors: barking.

    Fun fact: I was recently asked to contribute to an article on barking (how interesting, right?), and in this episode I’m sharing some of the answers I gave to the journalist’s questions.

    Here’s what we’re covering today:

    • The main reasons dogs bark — and the most common triggers

    • The difference between alert barking, demand barking, and separation barking

    • Why barking isn’t always “bad” — it can also come from fear, play, or even curiosity

    • Whether barking is natural or a learned response (hello, nature vs. nurture!)

    • And yes… whether some dogs are simply more prone to barking based on their genetic makeup

    This episode will help you stop seeing barking as “noise” and start seeing it as communication.

    Hope you enjoy!

    xoxo,

    Tracy 💛

    👣🐾 Next Steps:
    If you want to understand your dog on a deeper level so that everything gets easier, join me inside the Fearless Framework. It’s where we break the fear cycle and build the kind of trust and confidence that makes barking less of a problem in the first place.
    👉 BeyondObedience.ca/fearless

    👣🐾 Bonus: Come join the free Living Beyond Obedience community on Facebook, where you can connect with like-minded dog lovers, ask questions, and share your journey.
    👉 facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience


    🎵 Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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    23 min
  • 132 | NO! Isn't the Enemy.
    Sep 4 2025

    Hey Dog Lover! 🐾
    Ever feel a little weird about saying “no” to your dog?
    Like you’re doing something wrong or “un-positive”? 😬

    In this episode, we’re unpacking the myth that “no” is a bad word in dog training.
    We’ll explore why clarity isn’t cruel, why disagreement doesn’t mean disconnection, and how using both yes and no helps build trust, confidence, and a real relationship with your dog.

    If you’ve ever stood there, frozen, wondering what to do next—or if you’ve been stuck in the all-or-nothing world of dog training lingo (looking at you, “aversive”)—this episode is for you.

    It's not about perfection. It's about understanding.
    It’s about seeing the world through your dog’s eyes and becoming someone worth following.
    Because “no” isn’t the enemy—confusion is.

    Hope you enjoy this one.
    xoxo
    Tracy 💛


    🐕‍🦺 Next Step:

    Ready to take your relationship with your dog to the next level?

    Join the free Facebook community!
    🦴 Living Beyond Obedience

    Ready to take your relationship with your dog to the next level?

    Join the Fearless Framework—an incredible community of dog lovers just like you, all working to better understand themselves and their dogs through leadership, trust, and connection.

    👉 Visit beyondobedience.ca/fearless to learn more.

    🎵 Special music credit:
    Shawn Trotter – Shawntrotter.com


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    22 min
  • 131 | Your Dog Feels it Too: Barking Anxiety & the Emotional Side of Dog Behaviour
    Sep 1 2025

    Hey Dog Lover,

    Have you noticed your dog barking more lately? Acting out in ways that seem “out of the blue”? Maybe every time someone walks in—or out—the door, your dog launches into full-blown emotional mayhem. 😅

    Here’s the truth: your dog feels it too.

    Whether it’s back-to-school chaos, a kid leaving for college, grief, stress, or just a shift in your household energy—dogs don’t miss a beat. And what we often label as “bad behavior” is actually a cry for stability, connection, and leadership.

    In this episode, we unpack:

    • Why transitions affect your dog more than you think

    • How emotional energy (yep, yours) shows up as reactivity, anxiety, and barking

    • Why this isn’t a training issue—and what to do instead

    • The real meaning of trust-based leadership when you’re the one feeling unsteady

    If you’ve ever found yourself saying “my dog is driving me bananas right now,” but deep down know they’re just trying to keep up with your changing world—this one’s for you.

    Hope you enjoy this one,
    —Tracy


    🐾 Next Steps:

    💌 Be the first to know when something exciting is coming (hint: soon!)
    Join the mailing list at: beyondobedience.ca/contact

    👥 Join the free community for support & honest conversation:
    facebook.com/groups/livingbeyondobedience


    🎵 Musical credit to ShawnTrotter of shawntrotter.com

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    26 min
  • 130 | Dog struggle with guests? Help Your Dog Build Bravery (Not Just "Tolerate Visitors")
    Aug 28 2025

    Hey Dog Lover 🐾
    If your dog struggles when guests come over—whether it’s barking, hiding, or pacing—this episode is for you. Inspired by Jenee from the Living Beyond Obedience community, we’re digging into the Build Your Brave Protocol: Guest Edition so you can create a space where your dog feels safe and even starts to build confidence with each visit.

    We’ll talk about:

    • Setting up a comfort zone before guests arrive

    • Responding based on your dog’s personality and needs

    • Prepping your guests so they’re part of the solution

    • Reading early signs of discomfort before things escalate

    • Knowing what “success” actually looks like for a fearful dog in guest situations

    You’ll walk away with a step-by-step plan to help your dog move from just surviving visits… to feeling a little braver each time.

    hope you enjoy this one! Tracy.

    NEXT STEPS 👣🐾
    🐶 Join the free Living Beyond Obedience Facebook community: www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience
    🐾 Ready to go deeper? Check out The Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework at www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

    Special thanks for the music to Shawn Trotter — shawntrotter.com


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    30 min