Legendary maître d’ Brian Ellis pulls back the velvet rope on five decades at Melvyn’s and the Ingleside Inn, where stars, moguls, and locals mixed like martinis as he opens up on this episode of Big Conversations, Little Bar with Patrick Evans and Randy Florence from the corner booth at Skip Paige’s Little Bar in Palm Desert.. From overbooked New Year’s Eves to Sinatra’s rehearsal dinner, Ellis recounts how front-of-house finesse, unflappable charm, and a well-timed “wave” could turn chaos into magic. He remembers iconic entertainers like Nino Fontana, explains why the Sunday Jam became a civic ritual, and shares why Mel Haber’s old-school rules kept the lights glowing and the legends returning. Ellis also reveals the craft behind saying yes to special requests, the rare moments that warranted an 86, and the human kindness that happened off the record. Finally, he updates us on life at Hotel Paseo and his forthcoming memoir packed with signatures, photos, and jaw-dropping tales. It’s a sparkling masterclass in hospitality, Palm Springs history, and the art of making every guest feel like a headliner.

Takeaways:

• Five decades at Melvyn’s made Ellis the ultimate Palm Springs gatekeeper.
• Sinatra’s rehearsal dinner at Melvyn’s put the venue on the map.
• Sunday Jam crowds became a valley ritual requiring deft crowd management.
• Mel Haber’s “say yes” ethos—and selective 86ing—shaped service culture.
• Nino Fontana’s showmanship (and breaks!) inspired unforgettable lounge lore.
• Quiet philanthropy surfaced in stories of kindness from famous patrons.
• Classic tableside dishes and upselling sustained quality and profitability.
• Ellis now brings that front-of-house magic to Hotel Paseo—and to his memoir.

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From the corner booth at Skip’s Little Bar, this episode of Big Conversations, Little Bar explores modern radio, community impact, and the power of local voices. Our guest Brad Fuhr charts a path from teenage on-air shifts to rebuilding KGAY 106.5 as a public-benefit station, acquiring MeTV 103.1, and keeping nostalgia fresh with today’s tools. Patrick Evans and Randy Florence unpack voice tracking and AI, the ethics of synthetic newscasts, and why investing in real personalities still matters. There’s candid talk about safety, Pride season, FCC worries around call letters, and the economics of tourism advertising across the Coachella Valley. We also spotlight Gay Desert Guide’s event hub, visitor map, and business directory that connect residents and travelers to LGBTQ-owned, welcoming places. Plus: producer health miracles, bourbon jokes, and plenty of great music. A lively, thoughtful look at resilience, advocacy, and joy in a very special desert community.

Takeaways:

• Producer John McMullen shares a same-day heart-stent success at Eisenhower.
• Guest began radio at 15; lifelong passion led to leadership.
• KGAY 106.5 revived with a mission as a public-benefit corporation.
• MeTV 103.1 brings a nostalgia-driven, locally tuned music format.
• Technology enables remote shows; AI raises ethical news questions.
• Station spotlights advocacy amid safety concerns, FCC scrutiny, and Pride.
• Gay Desert Guide connects audiences to events and LGBTQ-owned businesses.
• Tourism headwinds challenge ad dollars, but community support remains strong.

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This episode of Big Conversations, Little Bar with Patrick Evans & Randy Florence dives into how passion, persistence, and service shape a life in film and community. Our guest Teddy Grouya—founder of the AmDocs Film Festival—traces a path from UCLA film studies and foreign-exchange days in Denmark to a State Department posting in Australia, then back to Hollywood and ultimately to creating a globally respected documentary and animation showcase. He explains how AmDocs curates 200+ films, hosts meaningful industry events, and consistently earns top marks from filmmakers. We explore why strong documentaries need more than talking heads, the surge of docuseries on streamers, and the hunt for that elusive story “hook.” He shares personal projects—from a Vivaldi passion piece to the heartfelt short Memory Collector—and his work restoring Palm Springs’ Plaza Theatre. Plus: volunteer opportunities, premieres, and how great festivals are built like great films—one dedicated department at a time.

Takeaways:

• A global path: Denmark exchange student → UCLA → State Department in Australia.
• AmDocs screens 200+ titles and prioritizes real industry networking.
• Festival success = curation, community, and nightly experiences beyond theaters.
• Submissions: generally completed within three years; 70-mile premiere radius.
• Docs should avoid “talking heads” fatigue—use dynamic visuals and archives.
• Memory Collector spotlights returning lost VHS memories to families.
• Vivaldi project began with curiosity and became a documentary narrative.
• Call for volunteers: drivers, theatre teams, and social media helpers.

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