Moms have an amazing gift of teaching us lessons that stay with us for our entire lives. One of those lessons is understanding what it means to be human. Ancient cultures have sought to answer this question, without consensus, until one Mom finally did it – in a powerful, transformative way. In this Black Belt Leadership installment, we examine The Rules for Being Human and how they apply to self-leadership and the leadership of others.

In this installment of Black Belt Leadership, Dr. John takes us where no man has gone before as he kicks things off with a nostalgic nod to Star Trek before exploring “The Blink.” Not only do our eyes blink, but so does our brain. We all experience brief mental pauses when our minds literally “blink,” causing us to miss important details, leading to gaps in memory and perspective. This is where having others around us can be invaluable to gain a clear, more reliableperspective. How they do that is the subject of this week’s teaching.

If you’ve ever found yourself making excuses or feeling trapped by self-imposed roadblocks, this Black Belt Leadership episode is for you. Dr. John unpacks the "BUT Effect"—those mental limitations we often set for ourselves—and provides actionable strategies to spot, shrink, and swap those limiting thoughts for empowering ones. Through step-by-step exercises, you'll learn how to break free from the habits that hold you back and start striving for Black Belt excellence in every area of your life.