What’s the intersection between TTRPGs, empowerment, and the divine feminine? In this episode of Bow Down! Reese and Dennis unpack how Dungeons & Dragons has evolved from a male-centric, exclusionary game to one of today’s most inclusive storytelling spaces for women, femmes, queer folks, and exvangelicals navigating life through creative story telling and meaningful community.

In this episode, we dive into:

• The healing potential of TTRPGs through storytelling and role-play
• The sexist and racist history of D&D (including some jaw-dropping examples) and how the TTRPG space has transformed into a beautiful, inclusive, and expansive community
• The Satanic Panic and finding empowerment in D&D despite growing up in evangelical families/communities
• The connection between the sacred feminine and spiritual practice and the history of D&D and how storytelling can be a mystical, spiritually connective experience
• How TTRPGs allow us to learn about and practice consent, boundaries, and safety tools that transform gaming tables into spaces of growth and self-discovery

Through our personal stories with TTRPGs and storytelling as well as honest conversation about systemic racism and sexism, we explore how storytelling is a microcosm of our broader zeitgeist, and how TTRPGs can become an expansive and inclusive playground for practicing pro-social behavior, exploring personal identity, and building radical, progressive spirituality all while telling epic stories with your besties!

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References and Resources:

• Dimension 20 (Dropout TV): https://www.dropout.tv/dimension-20
• Critical Role: https://critrole.com/
• The 20 Sided Tavern: https://thetwentysidedtavern.com/
• Original Quiz on Sexism in Early D&D from @DnD Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSvCP401kK0

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Dennis and Reese

What if Eve wasn’t the downfall of humanity, but the first voice of empowerment, self-discovery, and divine feminine wisdom? In this episode, we deconstruct the story of Eve and Lilith through the lenses of feminist practice, gender dynamics, and radical spirituality.

From communication skills to cis men’s roles in relationships, from shame to empowerment, we explore how this ancient myth still shapes modern conversations around women’s empowerment, spiritual feminism, and life after evangelicalism.

We’ll also connect Eve’s choice to modern manifestation techniques, mindset development, and the law of attraction/detachment, reframing her not as a sinner, but as the first seeker of knowledge and empowerment. If you’re exvangelical, exploring progressive spirituality, or on a journey of personal growth, this conversation invites you into the sacred feminine, where deconstruction leads to transformation.

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References and Resources:

David Foster Wallace Kenyon College Commencement Address, “This is Water”: https://fs.blog/david-foster-wallace-this-is-water/

Robert Alter’s ”The Hebrew Bible: A Translation with Commentary”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38212108-the-hebrew-bible

Diane Wolkstein’s “Inanna, Queen of Heaven and Earth”: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/868595.Inanna_Queen_of_Heaven_and_Earth

Ibram X. Kendi’s ”How to Be an Antiracist”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40265832-how-to-be-an-antiracist

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We’re exposing patriarchy, invisible labor, toxic masculinity, and modern gender roles in today’s episode of Bow Down! as we dive into the shockingly relevant 1970’s Feminist Manifesto, “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady Syfers. Expect laughs, raw truth, and a few “wait… what?!” moments.

From laughter to frustration to deep reflection, Reese and Dennis unpack why the essay hit so hard in 1971, why it still sparks debate now, and how its message connects to today’s struggles with toxic masculinity, the divine feminine, and the hidden costs of “helping” roles in relationships.

Expect candid stories, vulnerable insights, and plenty of moments that will make you say: “My God… who wouldn’t want a wife?!”

This episode expresses the powerful combination of spirituality and feminism that Reese and Dennis do best; challenging what we think we know about love, partnership, and freedom.

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design

To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

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References and Resources:

I Want a Wife from The Cut: https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/i-want-a-wife-by-judy-brady-syfers-new-york-mag-1971.html

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Dennis and Reese

In this episode of Bow Down! Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson break down the controversial “10 Things Women Always Notice but Never Admit” article, and uncover the complex and layered ways that masculinity, patriarchy, and relationship expectations affect every individual. They dive into topics like toxic masculinity playbooks, alpha-male courses, dating “tests,” vulnerability, financial pressures, and modern feminism, revealing how “traditional” societal rules play into the systemic structures that keep us insecure and disconnected.

Reese and Dennis challenge the harmful narratives around masculinity showing why authenticity, self-acceptance, and rejecting the patriarchy are the real keys to healthy relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, personal growth, or gender dynamics, this episode exposes the games people play—and why you don’t have to play along.

Watch to learn:

• How the “masculinity playbook” hurts men as much as it hurts women
• Why testing, scoring, and societal expectations aren’t just unnecessary, they’re harmful
• The power of authenticity, confidence, and self-acceptance in relationships

Hit play now to break free from outdated gender rules and embrace your true self!

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design

To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

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References and Resources:

Substack Article: https://substack.com/home/post/p-162724111

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In this episode of Bow Down! Reese and Dennis delve into the themes of Squid Game Season 3, including their emotional investment, deep character analysis, and the show’s implications of motherhood, sacrifice, and feminism. They also discuss gender dynamics, the impact of capitalism on women, and the representation of transgender identity in the series. The conversation highlights the complexities of power dynamics and the societal structures that influence the characters' actions and motivations, ultimately questioning how these themes resonate with real-world issues.

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References and Resources:

Watch Squid Game: https://www.netflix.com/watch/81262746?source=35

CNN Video on Christian Nationalist Pastor Doug Wilson: https://www.cnn.com/2025/08/08/politics/video/christian-nationalist-doug-wilson-pam-brown-digvid

Watch The Conjuring: https://www.google.com/search?q=where+to+watch+the+conjuring&oq=where+to+watch+the+conjuring&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyBwgEEAAYgAQyBwgFEAAYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQg0MjU3ajBqNKgCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

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In this episode of Bow Down!, a podcast exploring esoteric feminism, Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson delve into the biblical story of Delilah, exploring themes of power, agency, and morality. They discuss the historical context of Delilah's actions, the implications of her choices, and the nature of love and manipulation in relationships. They also explore the symbolism of hair in relation to masculinity and femininity, and how these themes intersect with empowerment and agency in women's stories. The conversation challenges traditional narratives and highlights the complexities of female characters in biblical stories.

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http://heartstoybox.com

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Dennis and Reese

In this episode of Bow Down! a podcast that explores spiritual and esoteric feminism, our magical roots, and re-awakening the divine feminine, Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson explore the movie, The Devil Wears Prada, a favorite of our hosts! Using the film’s themes of self-perception, societal pressures, womanhood, and ambition, they discuss the realities of being a professional woman, the impossible dilemma of womanly perfection, the complexity and support of female friendships, and the layered nuances of feminism. Reese and Dennis also reflect on the evolution of the conversation around womanhood and feminism since the film’s release, the film’s strengths and shortcomings, and the importance of acknowledging media’s messaging, especially to younger generations.

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References and Resources:

Watch The Devil Wears Prada: https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&sca_esv=84a972cf9bb6250a&rls=en&sxsrf=AE3TifN5d_0Jh_MlUTtcu5oUT3V4DBK_zQ:1754588448080&q=watch+the+devil+wears+prada&si=AMgyJEuCJcJkYNc1qTITpP0OA7OMqQKd2nnk6mel-nCfD06GK4pI5DeDP8z5vjfzPrTXHjo9w0yCbe55jT5xxAUv-Iaudd1GOCUe38lvqWJmjejt1o01CB1-Hlu4Iq8YIPlLuGGcvK_pgGstXmq8lufgd0c0wv8zezyHoDCZ4UwxXc9ht7jtAJM%3D&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiP47Kpn_mOAxWGgGoFHYPGGCkQyNoBKAB6BAgYEAA&ictx=1

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Dennis and Reese

This week, Reese and Dennis explore the significant astrological transit of Uranus moving into Gemini, discussing its implications for personal transformation, relationships, and societal change. They reflect on their personal experiences with the transit, emphasizing the themes of chaos, revolution, and the unveiling of truths. The discussion also touches on the political landscape and the importance of recognizing one's worthiness in the face of change. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace their authentic selves and navigate the upcoming transformations with confidence and openness.

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design

To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

Follow The Cohere Collective:

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References and Resources:

Reddit Post from Anxious-Vacation9850: https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsFuckWithAstrology/comments/1ltv3zc/the_full_7_years_system_reboot_with_uranus_in/

With empowered Coherence,

Dennis and Reese