Épisodes

  • How to Sit with the Grief of Identity Loss with Dr. Wai Jia Tam

    How to Sit with the Grief of Identity Loss with Dr. Wai Jia Tam
    Nov 18 2025
    In this episode, Natasha is joined by Dr. Wai Jia Tam, an award-winning humanitarian doctor, keynote speaker, author, and comedian whose journey through chronic pain, trauma, and faith has inspired thousands to find God in their darkest seasons. A Forbes Asia 30 Under 30 honoree and Fulbright Scholar, she has served with the World Health Organization and UNICEF across Asia and Africa. Now based in Tanzania with her husband and two daughters, she speaks around the world on courage, obedience, and the joy of God’s healing, even when it looks like loss.

    Come and sit with us. Join the conversation as we discuss how to navigate grief that comes along with identity loss and more. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:


    • Integration of Grief
    • Identity and Loss
    • Faith and New Beginnings
    • Hope and Unshackling

    Helpful Links:
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    • Get your copy of Can You Just Sit With Me and Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Dream Brave
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Dr. Wai Jia Tam (Guest)

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    47 min
  • How to Navigate Grief and Gratitude with Jillian Benfield

    How to Navigate Grief and Gratitude with Jillian Benfield
    Nov 11 2025
    In this episode, Natasha is joined by Jillian Benfield, a former journalist and news anchor, a disability advocate, Speaker, and Author of The Gift of the Unexpected and her latest book Overwhelmed & Grateful. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings and community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress’s National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition.

    Come and sit with us. Join the conversation as we discuss how to navigate grief and gratitude.
    Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:


    • The "Both/And" Approach to Grief and Gratitude
    • Isolation and Identity Shift Through Loss
    • The Role of Faith and Grace in Navigating Chaos
    • Hope Through Solidarity and Resurrection

    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Can You Just Sit With Me and Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Overwhelmed & Grateful
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Jillian Benfield (Guest)

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    33 min
  • How to Untangle Complex Shame and Grief with Dr. Zoe Shaw

    How to Untangle Complex Shame and Grief with Dr. Zoe Shaw
    Nov 4 2025
    In this episode, Natasha is joined by Dr. Zoe Shaw, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and expert on complex shame, to discuss the many faces of grief, the impact of shame, and practical steps for healing. Dr. Zoe shares her personal story, insights from her new book "Stronger in the Difficult Places," and actionable advice for listeners navigating shame and loss.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation.
    Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:
    • Grief and shame show up in many forms, not just tears.
    • Complex shame is deeply rooted and hard to heal without self-awareness.
    • Healing starts with vulnerability, self-forgiveness, and setting boundaries.
    • Restoring your relationship with yourself leads to true freedom and connection.
    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Can You Just Sit With Me and Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Stronger in the Difficult Places
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Dr. Zoe Shaw (Guest)

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    44 min
  • Soul Care for Black Woman Grief with Dr. Barbara Peacock

    Soul Care for Black Woman Grief with Dr. Barbara Peacock
    Apr 29 2025
    In this episode, Natasha is joined by Dr. Barbara Peacock, a Spiritual Director and author of the award-winning book Soul Care in African American Practice and several other books. She is the Founder of Barbara L. Peacock Ministries and the Peacock Soul Care Institute.

    In this conversation, Dr. Peacock helps us as Black women get back to spiritual disciplines to help us navigate grief and this grief filled life in which we live.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation, Sitting with Black Woman Grief, an exclusive podcast series on the Can You Just Sit With Me? Podcast. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:


    • Understanding Black Woman Grief
    • The Power of Spiritual Disciplines
    • Prayer and Its Vital Role
    • Creating Space for Soul Care


    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Soul Care in African American Practice
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Dr. Barbara Peacock (Guest)

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    50 min
  • Allyship, Grief, and the Church with Aubrey Sampson

    Allyship, Grief, and the Church with Aubrey Sampson
    Apr 22 2025
    In this episode, Natasha sits with Aubrey Sampson, author of several books on grief, lament, and hope including The Louder Song, Known, her best-selling kids book Big Feelings Days and her newest book What We Find in the Dark. Aubrey is a church planter and teaching pastor at Renewal Church, a multiethnic congregation in the Chicagoland area, the co-host of the Nothing is Wasted Podcast, and leads The Louder Song Community, an online gathering for grievers and those walking with the hurting. I am so very honored to know her.

    In this conversation, Aubrey shares what it means to be an ally, how the church can better support and come alongside Black Women and how to encourage our hearts when we experience grief from her latest work What We Find In the Dark.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation, Sitting with Black Woman Grief, an exclusive podcast series on the Can You Just Sit With Me? Podcast. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:
    • Understanding Grief and Allyship
    • The Role of the Church in Addressing Grief
    • Naming Grief as a Path to Healing
    • A Companion in Darkness


    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of What We Find in the Dark
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Aubrey Sampson (Guest)

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    44 min
  • Empowering Black Women through Activism and Advocacy with Ekemini Uwan

    Empowering Black Women through Activism and Advocacy with Ekemini Uwan
    Apr 8 2025
    In this episode, Natasha sits with Ekemini Uwan, a public theologian, international human rights activist, and co-author of the 2023 NAACP Image Award Nominated book Truth’s Table: Black Women’s Musings on Life, Love, and Liberation. She co-hosts the award-winning podcast Truth's Table and Get In The Word With Truth’s Table. Her writings have been published in The Atlantic, The Washington Post, The Huffington Post Black Voices, and Hallmark Mahogany, and more. As one who is passionate about theology, Ekemini has a fierce commitment to the gospel and its implications for issues pertaining to reparations, racial injustice, anti-black racism, and white supremacy.

    In this conversation, Ekemini shares the grief that many Black women experienced during the last presidential election—and continue to carry in its aftermath. It’s a collective grief, often held in silence, yet deeply felt. A grief that deserves space, care, and healing.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation, Sitting with Black Woman Grief, an exclusive podcast series on the Can You Just Sit With Me? Podcast. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:
    • Understanding Black Woman Grief
    • Embracing Activism and Advocacy
    • Intersectionality in Grief and Healing
    • Practical Ways to Support Black Women

    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Truth's Table
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Ekemini Uwan (Guest)

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    48 min
  • The Church, Grief and Sisterhood: Bridging the Gap with Liv Dooley

    The Church, Grief and Sisterhood: Bridging the Gap with Liv Dooley
    Apr 1 2025
    In this episode, Natasha sits with Liv Dooley, a Bible teacher and the podcast host of The Best Kept Secret with Liv Dooley, which has featured some of the leading teachers and burgeoning ministry leaders of our day. Liv is passionate about helping people enjoy greater intimacy and authority in Christ Jesus through prayer. She shares her heart about the church, grief and sisterhood.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation, Sitting with Black Woman Grief, an exclusive podcast series on the Can You Just Sit With Me? Podcast. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:
    • Creating Safe Spaces
    • Navigating Church and Grief
    • The Role of Collaboration
    • The Power of Community and Accountability

    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of Selah-Bible Study Guide with Video Access: A Study of 1 and 2 Samuel
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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Liv Dooley (Guest)

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    49 min
  • Healing Together: Communal Grief and Rebuilding with Dawn Mann Sanders

    Healing Together: Communal Grief and Rebuilding with Dawn Mann Sanders
    Mar 25 2025
    In this episode, Natasha sits with Dawn Mann Sanders, an associate minister and has written and taught extensively on overcoming adversity and creating a new life, and she is the author of When Your World Ends: God’s Creative Process for Rebuilding.

    Come and sit with us and join the conversation, Sitting with Black Woman Grief, an exclusive podcast series on the Can You Just Sit With Me? Podcast. Please let us know what resonates with you.

    Main points:
    • Unspoken Grief
    • Breaking the Silence
    • Navigating Cultural and Societal Forces
    • Rebuilding Through Faith and Community

    Helpful Links:
    • Join the newsletter | Sign up for monthly encouragement from Natasha here.
    • Get your copy of Black Woman Grief
    • Get your copy of When Your World Ends
    Connect on Socials:

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    Host & Guest:
    Natasha Smith (Host)
    Dawn Mann Sanders (Guest)

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    1 h et 9 min