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  • Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner

    Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner
    Jul 9 2025
    Struggling to Know Self Through a BPD Partner

    Codependency presents the struggle to know "self" through a BPD Partner and/or Ex. This is the Codependent part of the Trauma Bond. People with Codependency are repeating their own childhood woundedness, often unconsciously, in these toxic relationships. It just isn't all about the person with Borderline Personality. You need to become more consciously aware of your own choices and get into therapy to break the trauma bond and stop abandoning yourself.

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    33 min
  • Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependen

    Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependen
    Jan 17 2025
    Two Codependents in Relationship After Previous Cluster B Relationships & Counter-Dependency

    A Youtube commenter asked can you be Codependent in a relationship with a partner with Codependency and both manifest codependency more as counter-dependency when each person in the relationship has had a previous Cluster B relationship?

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    25 min
  • Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships

    Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships
    Jun 11 2023
    Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems Re-Enacted In Adult Relationships

    People with Codependency, more often than not, re-enact core childhood woundness from Family Sytems in Family of Origin in adulthood with people with BPD or NPD especially in significant other relationships. You need to focus on you now and your patterns and what you need to heal not continue to focus on a Borderline or a Narcissist and recycling relationship breakups with them which is only you repeating your multi-layered trauma and increasing your pain and loss of self.

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    50 min
  • Codependency Is A Trauma Response - Therapy Is The Way To Heal Not 12 Step Groups

    Codependency Is A Trauma Response - Therapy Is The Way To Heal Not 12 Step Groups
    Dec 24 2022
    Codependency has its roots in a childhood trauma response to varying degrees for people who have Codependency. People cannot heal from Codependency and/or the trauma bonded relationships with CLuster B's without a trauma-based and trauma informed healing and recovery process working with ana expert in this area.

    The Codependent's Anonymous 12 Step program or other 12 step programs are not designed for the depthy of the process to heal your codependency. The 12 step groups are not the way to go and certainly not something to choose instead of working with an expert in your reccovery process.
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    48 min
  • Codependency 12 Core Signs & Understanding Dysfunctional Relational Patterns

    Codependency 12 Core Signs & Understanding Dysfunctional Relational Patterns
    Dec 10 2022
    Codependency 12 Core Signs that indicate codependency and understanding the
    dysfunctional relational patterns of Codependency that have their causation in
    childhood woundedness.
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    46 min
  • Codependency Is Rooted In Childhood It's Not Your Fault

    Codependency Is Rooted In Childhood It's Not Your Fault
    Jul 17 2022
    Codependency is Rooted in Childhood - It's Not Your Fault - Why you have Codependency is not your fault because nothing is ever a child's fault. It is your responsibility now to get into therapy to heal and recover and find and know yourself in an independent way for the first time in your life.
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    1 h
  • Codependency Core Challenges That are Must Know

    Codependency Core Challenges That are Must Know
    Jul 3 2022
    AJ Mahari outlines several key core challenges in Codependency that are must know. How codependents are thinking, feeling, behaving and why. Must know info that doesn't even yet get into the traits of codependency.
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    28 min
  • Codependency Overview It's Complicated That Codependency in a Limbo of Place of Confusion

    Codependency Overview It's Complicated That Codependency in a Limbo of Place of Confusion
    Jul 2 2022
    Codependency Overview - Codependency is complicated due to its definition being left in a limbo place of confusion says A.J. Mahari Codependence is it a personality disorder or not and why is it, in some circles being more pathologized? Will this hurt or help more people to learn about their own codependency?
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    16 min