Reconciliation isn’t optional—it’s the heartbeat of the Gospel.

In a world where division feels louder than ever, what does it really mean to sit at the table with those we see as our “enemies”? In this conversation, Erin and Ramonita explore what it looks like to lay down our weapons, approach conflict with humility, and follow Jesus’ example of love and reconciliation.

Together, they unpack the “rules of engagement” for communion—how active listening, curiosity, and confession can disarm even the most difficult conversations. From understanding the roots of offense to practicing benevolent detachment, this episode invites you to lean into the tension, pursue healing, and keep Christ at the center of it all.

You’ll walk away challenged to see reconciliation not as a one-time event, but as a daily rhythm that transforms how we love, forgive, and lead.

* Reconciliation requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to listen.

* Setting the table for dialogue opens the door to understanding perceived enemies.

* Jesus models the posture of love and surrender that leads to healing.

* Confession, curiosity, and context disarm conflict and build connection.

* Keeping Christ at the center transforms division into deeper unity.

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Reconciliation is needed more than ever in today’s world. The body of Christ often appears fractured and divided, but Jesus prayed for unity among His followers. So what does it look like to actually live that out?

In this conversation, Ramonita and Erin dive into the pressing need for reconciliation in the body of Christ amidst a week filled with heavy news and heightened division. They explore the complexities of human experiences, the impact of social media, and the importance of unity over uniformity.

Together, they wrestle with hard but necessary questions: How do we love our enemies? How do we forgive when it feels impossible? And how do we move from building walls that divide to tables that invite conversation, understanding, and healing?

This episode will challenge you to see disagreement differently, encourage you to listen deeply, and invite you to step into the reconciling work Jesus calls us to.

Key Takeaways:

* Unity does not mean conformity—it’s about understanding different perspectives.

* Social media can amplify division, but intentional dialogue can foster reconciliation.

* Disagreement is not the same as disunity; we can disagree and remain united in Christ.

* Forgiveness is difficult but essential for healing and reconciliation.

* Our identity in Christ empowers us to extend love and grace even in conflict.

* Building tables for dialogue is more powerful than building walls of division.

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Are people born good? Broken? Or somewhere in that messy middle? In this episode, we dive into one of the oldest (and most important) questions about human nature.

Together, they explore:

* How nature, nurture, and choice shape who we become

* Why grace and accountability both matter in how we see ourselves and others

* The power of love to transform lives and communities

* What the Bible says about being created in God’s image while living in a fallen world

This conversation is all about wrestling with the tension between who we are, who God created us to be, and how His grace makes reconciliation possible.

Whether you’ve always believed people are “mostly good,” wrestled with the reality of brokenness, or are just curious about how faith fits into it all, you’ll find encouragement and honesty here.

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Ever wondered if God really hears your prayers? In this episode, we get real about the times God has said yes, the times He’s said no, and the harder ones—not yet or not like that. We share our own stories of waiting, wrestling, and finding hope, and remind each other that prayer isn’t a formula to get what we want—it’s about staying close to God in every season.

Here is some of what we discuss in this episode:

* Why unanswered prayers can shake our faith

* The difference between treating prayer like a formula vs. a relationship

* The role of trust, patience, and perseverance when God says wait

* Personal stories of provision, heartbreak, and hope that shaped our prayer lives

* How shifting our prayers from self-focus to kingdom-focus changes everything

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In this conversation, we dive into the branding crisis within Christianity, exploring why the issues often lie not with Jesus, but with the behavior of His followers. We tackle the credibility gap between belief and behavior, the importance of embodying Jesus’s character, and the need for unity among believers despite theological differences.

Key takeaways include:

* The credibility gap is a significant issue, causing many to leave institutional Christianity

* Jesus exemplifies love, humility, and service, which Christians are called to emulate

* Living authentically and reflecting on our actions rebuilds trust and represents Christ well

* Love—not perfection—is the truest indicator of faith

* Grace and truth must coexist, and accountability is essential in our faith journey

* We may be the only representation of Jesus others ever see

This episode challenges listeners to reflect on their beliefs and actions, encouraging a deeper understanding of Jesus’s teachings and the impact of their lives on others.

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In this episode of Come.Union, we’re diving into a phrase that’s often misunderstood in Christian spaces: the “Fear of God.”

Is it about punishment? Control? Living in terror of messing up?

Or… is there something deeper and more beautiful?

We explore how the biblical concept of fear is less about being afraid and more about reverence, awe, and respect. Through honest conversation, personal stories, and scriptural insights, we challenge the fear-based theology many of us inherited and offer a fresh perspective of God—not as a distant authoritarian, but as a loving protector.

In this episode, we talk about:

* Why “fearing God” doesn’t mean living in shame

* What the Bible actually says about fear and reverence

* How we’ve been unlearning fear-based religion

* What it looks like to build a relationship with God rooted in love and trust

If you’ve ever felt afraid of God—or unsure how to relate to Him beyond rules and fear—this conversation is for you.

We’re back with Season 3, and we’re so excited to kick things off with this conversation.

In this episode, we (Ramonita and Erin) get real about the complexities of faith—especially when it comes to trusting God’s goodness in the middle of pain, doubt, and hard seasons. We talk about where our questions about God’s character come from, how the prosperity gospel has shaped some of our thinking, and what it looks like to move from a fear-based relationship with God to one that’s actually rooted in love and trust.

You’ll hear personal stories, some honest wrestling, and reflections on how worship, community, and reframing our narratives can help us see God’s goodness—even when life doesn’t make sense. We also dig into the story of Joseph as a powerful reminder that purpose can come from our pain, and that asking God the hard questions is part of what grows our faith.

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This is our season finale of season 2 and we cannot wait for where we are headed for season 3!

In a world filled with division and brokenness, hosts Ramonita and Erin dive deep into the heart of reconciliation with God, self, and others. In this episode they discuss the topic of expectations: the ones we have for ourself, the ones we have for others and the expectations others have for us. Reflecting on the power of intentionally loving others, unmet expectations and the spiritual warfare shaping our society, they confront the harsh realities of our current world. Join them as they navigate through the challenges of a divided society, emphasizing the importance of unity, love, and understanding. Featuring a powerful discussion sparked by real-life events, including the tragic story of Sonia Massey.

Key Takeaways:

* Discover the impact of expectations on self-perception and relationships.

* Embrace the journey towards self-love and acceptance, prioritizing God's view of us over societal standards.

* Explore the significance of reconciliation with God, ourselves, and others in a divided world.

* Reflect on the power of intentional love and the need for empathy in a polarized society.

* Acknowledge the role of spiritual warfare in societal division and the importance of seeking unity and understanding.

Stay tuned for Season 3 coming THIS FALL 2025!

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