Welcome to Come to the Brink, the place where we tell the truth about what breaks us, what remakes us, and what it takes to keep going when life drags you to the edge. This is where we meet the parts of ourselves we’ve avoided, the parts we’ve abandoned, and the parts that are still here — waiting for us — even when we think we’re out of time, out of breath, or out of courage.

Today, I’m talking about yet another thing we as women don’t talk about enough...menopause. Well, to clarify, I am talking about my Hero's Journey to Menopause. A journey that included generational trauma, the return of uterine fibroids, a hospital stay during Covid, several blood transfusions, a little help from my friends, a menopause support group, clueless doctors, and Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT).

I sat down with my long-term colleague Aleese Moore Orbih to talk about how spirituality, art, and healing practice revolutionized my work in the gender-based violence movement.

Welcome to Come to the Brink. This is where we gather — the grievers, the dreamers, the builders — to speak honestly about what it means to live through endings and still create.

My guests today are Fiona Oliphant and Cassie Whitebread of Healing Equity United, an organization dedicated to centering those living at the margins by valuing lived experience, amplifying marginalized voices, and realigning power within institutions and communities.

Their recent article, “Preparing for the Future Means Feeling Now,” reminds us that numbness is not neutrality is the only way through this dystopian nightmare.

Fiona brings decades of experience as a legal advocate, executive director, public speaker, and Jamaican-American mother with an unshakable belief that collectively we can end violence and oppression.

Cassie is a radical educator, coach, and community builder — a former teacher turned consultant who helps organizations operationalize equity through honesty, care, and connection. She believes that transformation starts with courageous conversations and collective action.

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Feb. 5, 2026

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In times marked by grief, uncertainty, and the urgent need for justice, Rooted & Rising offers space to pause, replenish, and reimagine what’s possible together in 2026. Through story circles, experiential healing practices, and action-oriented breakout sessions, participants will leave grounded in community and inspired to take meaningful next steps.