Does connecting with others come easy, or is it hard for you?

Did you know that if you grow your ability to connect, you will grow your leadership capacity? Leaders must be able to connect or they will stunt the growth of their leadership potential.

If connecting is hard for you - it can get easier. Over time, it came even become natural for you to boost your ability to form a connection. Pam will share 5 tips to help you decrease the awkwardness, form a connection quickly, and fulfill God's plan for you. None of us are called to isolate, we are called to do life in community and that requires connection.

As we learn to connect, we will grow relationships. As we grow relationships, we will have the opportunity to make an impact in the lives of others. Connection is required to establish trust and respect. This opens up the door for us to have influence in the lives of those around us.

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Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Confidence is not out of reach. You can be confident as you lead others. Matter of fact, you can walk in Confident Christian Influence everyday and choose to be intentional about making an impact in the lives of others.

In this episode Pam talks about 3 decisions you can make to boost your confidence quickly. These decisions are not difficult, but it is very important that you decide to do these 3 things. You will be so glad you did.

Pam has also added a new resource - the Identity Sheet - you will want to grab. Hop over to her Resource Library - click here - type in your email and then have instant access to some very helpful resources.

Visit the Marketplace on Pam's website to order her book and her Truth Journal. Pam's clients say the Truth Journal is a game changer. And it makes a great gift and stocking stuffer. Grab yours here.

Oh, and here is the link to Pam's favorite Bible.

Okay friend - remember you have worth and value, God has a plan and a purpose for you, and you have gifts God wants to use. Today is a good day to decide you will no longer compare yourself to others, be intimidated, and no longer be confined by your comfort zone.

Be a confident leader who leads others well and makes a difference in their life.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam shares a practical, faith-forward guide to dealing with difficult people using the L.E.A.D. framework and the example of Jesus’ authority under control. You’ll learn how to lead like Jesus when tensions rise, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and respond with clarity and self-control instead of reacting from frustration. We walk through L.E.A.D. — Lean In, Elevate Perspective, Accept Responsibility, Do the Right Things for the Right Reasons—to help you lean into God's word and instruction, consider the opportunity you have to impact the difficult persons and others, to respond appropriately, and do what God would have you to do. You’ll practice calm authority as your leadership strengthens relationships, reduces conflict, and builds trust at work, in ministry, and at home.

Pam covers the worth and value we all have, Biblical principles that must be upheld, and how to set healthy boundaries and detach from the drama while staying kind. If you’re ready to transform difficult interactions into opportunities for clarity, confidence, and influence, this episode gives you the tools to lead strong with grace and truth.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

You are going to love this episode.

Get ready to identify the very excuse(s) you use to stop you short of Rising Up, Leading, and Impacting others at work, in your community, and at home. While it is easy to shrink back, it is more challenging to be bold and choose to be intentional to lead well. This is why so many never step into their God-given calling to grow into the leader they were created to become.

Don't let this be you. You can lean in and learn what you need to lead. You can elevate your perspective and recognize this is not about you, but about the lives you can impact. Accept the responsibility to lead and do it afraid and choose to be uncomfortable until your no longer are. Lastly, do the right thing for the right reason - to impact the lives of those around you.

Today, we need Confident Christian Influence more than ever before. It all begins with a simple yes and a willing heart to be obedient.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In Episode 199 of Confident Christian Influence, Pam teaches a practical Christian leadership mindset framework to help you control your thoughts and transform your actions. If you’re battling overthinking, anxiety, perfectionism, or negative self-talk, this episode shows you how to identify faulty thoughts, stop the thought spiral, and replace lies with truth so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and self-control at work and at home.

You’ll learn to spot your limiting thoughts, run a quick thought audit that separates facts from assumptions, and use a simple pattern interrupt to break mental momentum.

Pam walks you through building a personalized Truth Bank—three to five statements that target your most frequent lies—and pairing each truth with a concrete action step. This Notice • Neutralize • Replace process equips you to quiet internal noise, strengthen emotional intelligence, and create consistent leadership behaviors that align with your calling.

Download the Truth Bank & the Thought Framework Worksheet - HERE, take the Leadership Type Quiz, and book a 60-minute Clarity Call to practice real scenarios and elevate your faith-at-work influence.

Scripture anchor: 2 Corinthians 10:5.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam breaks down some communication skills that help leaders speak with clarity, compassion, and confidence. You’ll learn how to be clear and concise, practice active listening, and lead with emotional intelligence so your team feels seen, safe, and supported.

Pam shows how to give constructive feedback, foster transparency and trust, adapt your style to different personalities, and encourage dialogue that elevates wisdom. She also covers nonverbal communication, choosing the right medium for sensitive topics, and staying fully present—online and in person.

This is a practical guide to advancing your leadership impact with grace and truth.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Are you intentional about your influence? You are influencing others. The question is what kind of influence do you have on others and how does it impact their life? What are you modeling for others?

Today let's dive into...

• What is influence?
• Why do I need influence?
• Do I have influence?

And a couple bonuses...

• How do I become intentional with my influence?
• What can God do with my obedience?

This is a great episode to keep on repeat. You have to remember that this is what is important. This is what matters. Let's stop wasting our time on so many things that simply do not matter, so we can focus on what does.

1. Our relationship with Jesus matters.

2. Our Christian influence matters because we may be the only Jesus someone ever sees.

Rise up. Lead like Jesus. Follow Him. Lead others to Him. Influence them for the Kingdom and make impact in their lives. And all God's people said, AMEN!

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In this episode: Pam shows why margin isn’t a luxury—it’s the backbone of Christian leadership. You’ll learn how to create intentional white space in your schedule and soul so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and better time management.

You’ll learn

• What margin really is and why leaders can’t thrive without it.
• How margin clarifies calling and reduces decision fatigue (Psalm 46:10).
• Practical buffers and rhythms that improve time management (Ephesians 5:15–16).
• How to say no without guilt so your yes is stronger (Galatians 1:10).
• Why Sabbath and solitude are strategic, not optional (Mark 6:31; Luke 5:16).

• Resources & Links:

  • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]