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Ever wondered how the most devastating loss can become the foundation for the most meaningful life? In this profound episode, I sit down with Mick Wienholt, a father of four and podcast host who shares his extraordinary story about how losing his firstborn son changed everything - not just about fatherhood, but about faith, purpose, and what it truly means to raise children.

The Philosophy That Changes Everything

Discover why Mick believes the most important advice any father can receive comes down to just two words: "raise adults." Learn how this simple concept shifted his entire parenting perspective from managing day-to-day challenges to preparing his children for a lifetime of success and resilience.

Key takeaways:

• The mindset shift from "raise your kids or raise your grandkids"—why taking your eye off the ball creates overgrown children in adult bodies
• Why small, consistent corrections beat waiting until your teenager has a massive attitude problem
• How to balance being present without hovering—the difference between parenting and chaperoning

Remember, being a great dad isn't about having all the answers - it's about being willing to let God interrupt your plans and guide your steps. Are you ready to stop trying to raise happy children and start focusing on raising functional, happy adults who can change the world? Listen now and discover how one father's journey through unimaginable loss became the foundation for extraordinary faith and purposeful parenting.

Connect with Mick Wienholt:

https://www.whenyoulook.com

https://www.youtube.com/@WhenYouLookShow

https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwienholt

https://www.instagram.com/whenyoulookshow

https://www.facebook.com/whenyoulookshow

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Ever wondered how a simple moment of vulnerability can completely transform your relationship with your children? In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Tracy Brinkmann, a father of four daughters, podcaster, and entrepreneur who shares his powerful story about the night everything changed between him and his dad - and how that moment shaped his entire approach to fatherhood.

Tracy opens up about walking into his house as a teenager to find his father crying after losing his grandmother, and how those raw emotions led to a breakthrough that lasted the rest of their relationship. We explore his philosophy of raising daughters who can "change their own oil but find a man who won't make them do it" and why he believes every communication with his children should end with "I love you."

Remember, being a great dad isn't about being perfect - it's about showing up, speaking love consistently, and setting standards so high that your children will know exactly what they deserve from others. Are you ready to become the Superman your kids need while teaching them to find their own strength? Listen now and discover how one father's approach to raising four daughters can inspire your own path to meaningful fatherhood.

Connect with Tracy Brinkmann

https://darkhorseschooling.com/newsletter

https://darkhorseschooling.com

https://www.facebook.com/tracy.brinkmann

https://www.youtube.com/@DarkHorseEntrepreneur

https://x.com/TracyBrinkmann

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracybrinkmann

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Ever wondered how to raise kids who can handle whatever life throws at them without becoming paranoid or fearful? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Nick Taylor, AKA B Nick Energy, a father, security professional, and kidney donor who shares his unfiltered approach to preparing his 18-year-old daughter for the realities of today's world.

Nick opens up about watching his daughter head off to college in a party town and the sleepless nights that followed. We explore his philosophy of teaching kids to "look for the best in people while preparing them to handle the worst" and why he believes there's no such thing as preparing your children too much for life's challenges.

The Art of Balanced Preparation

Discover why Nick teaches his daughter to make friends with the biggest guy on the football team and how situational awareness becomes second nature. Learn the difference between raising warriors versus victims and why teaching self-defense to daughters isn't just recommended - it's essential in today's world.

The Social Media Reality Check

Uncover Nick's take on the "get ready with me" culture and why teaching kids that nobody actually cares how they make their toast is crucial for their mental health. Learn how to help your children maintain healthy boundaries and why knowing yourself alone is just as important as knowing how to be with others.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about sheltering your children from the world - it's about giving them the tools, awareness, and support systems they need to navigate it confidently. Are you ready to stop worrying and start preparing your kids to be the warriors they need to be? Listen now and discover how one father's security expertise translates into real-world parenting wisdom that could keep your children safe.

Nick Taylor Links:

https://nicks2cups1.podbean.com

https://www.instagram.com/bnickenergy_2025

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