Are you over 40 and training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?

Thinking of starting BJJ later in life or wondering if you’re too old to roll?

In this inspiring and honest conversation, we speak with a BJJ black belt who began his journey after already earning a black belt in Hapkido and got completely humbled by a 16-year-old on the mats.

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🥋 Topics Covered:

How long it really takes to get a BJJ black belt (especially when starting after 40)

Is it easier to get promoted today vs the early 2000s?

The emotional and ego challenges of starting over as a white belt

What it's like being a beginner again in your 40s

Why so many older men feel lost during their BJJ journey—and how to push through it

Training BJJ as a military veteran and moving between schools with no black belts

💭 Whether you’re a brown belt wondering if you’re ready, or just a 45-year-old white belt getting smashed weekly, this video speaks directly to older BJJ students who refuse to quit.

Dad's Mental Health Podcast

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ABOUT THE HOST

Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

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Are you showing up in your marriage the way you did when you were dating or have you both slowly shifted into the roommate zone?

Many couples struggle with emotional distance, dwindling intimacy, or feeling unappreciated not because they’ve fallen out of love, but because they’ve stopped intentionally pursuing each other.

This episode unpacks a powerful framework to reignite connection, deepen trust, and bring back the fun, without waiting for "the mood" to strike.

In this episode, you will:

1) Discover why serving your partner without prerequisites can transform emotional and physical intimacy.

2) Learn how to redefine and measure success in your relationship using five simple, actionable routines.

3) Understand how mutual pursuit—planned with intention—can revive joy, connection, and lasting friendship in your marriage.

Tap play now to learn the practical steps that can take your marriage from autopilot to intentional, connected, and thriving.

Dad's Mental Health Podcast

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First Time Dad

ABOUT THE HOST

Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

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For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

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If you're a content creator looking to try some state of the art production & editing software you really need to check out Descript.

Descript has made my life so so much easier.

It's AI clever ness makes everything so much quicker which leaves me more time to make up some genuinely terrible Ukulele songs.

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James

Dear "dad mate"

I've just started listening to a podcast on apple podcasts for dads, which I think you might like.

It covers dad friendly

In this heartfelt episode, James shares some personal news with the Dad’s Mental Health community.

After recently losing his job, James is facing tough financial times and, as a result, is unable to continue hosting the podcast—at least for now.

He reflects on the journey so far, thanks the guests and listeners who’ve supported the show, and expresses deep gratitude for everyone who’s been part of it.

Though the podcast will pause after May 2025, James remains committed to supporting dads and promoting mental health conversations.

🎥 Stay Connected:

James will continue creating free content on YouTube, including discussions around mental health and his journey with jiu-jitsu.

🔗 Dad Mind Matters on YouTube

🙏 Thank you for being part of the journey. Take care, and wherever you are—James hopes you're doing okay.

*DISCLAIMER*

I'm neither a mental health professional nor pretending to be one.

With that in mind please consider this video as entertainment.

If you need professional advice please speak to your doctor.

That said, as someone who struggles with my mental health I have suggested things that have helped me in the past.

These organisations may also be able to offer support.

https://www.samaritans.org/

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/

Have you ever wondered if your friend’s recent behaviour could be a silent cry for help?

In a world where emotional struggles are often hidden behind smiles and social posts, this episode sheds light on the subtle but significant signs that someone close to you, perhaps even your best mate might be dealing with something deeper than just a bad day.

In this episode, you will:

1) Learn to recognise five often missed emotional warning signs, from changes in mood to shifts in social media behaviour.

2) Discover practical, compassionate steps you can take if you're worried about someone close to you.

3) Gain real world insight from a dad who’s walked the path of mental health challenges himself no clinical jargon, just heartfelt honesty.

Hit play now to learn how to spot when a friend might be struggling and how to show up for them when it really matters.

Dad's Mental Health Podcast

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First Time Dad

ABOUT THE HOST

Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

USEFUL RESOURCES

For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

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Have you ever had to stop training Jiu-Jitsu because of a nasty skin infection you didn’t see coming?

If you're a grappler, you already know skin infections can side line your progress and your sanity.

In this episode, we dive into how one BJJ practitioner turned a painful staph infection into a powerful solution for every athlete who's serious about staying on the mats and avoiding the dreaded “mat funk.”

In this episode, you will:

1) Discover the real story behind how a training setback sparked the creation of a skin-safe hygiene product designed for combat athletes.

2 Learn which natural ingredients actually work to prevent infections—and which ones are just hype.

3) Get practical, expert-backed tips on how to upgrade your hygiene routine before and after training to stay healthy and roll longer.

Press play now to hear how one dad, BJJ blue belt, and soap entrepreneur is helping fighters stay clean, stay training, and stay ahead.

Dad's Mental Health - Formerly known as “Dad Mind Matters,” is a newly rebranded podcast for new dads, stay-at-home dads, working dads, and sleep-deprived legends just trying to do their best.

Hosted by James, a husband, father of three, and resident of Brighton, UK—this show brings honest, relatable chats about what it really means to be a modern dad.

Welcome to Dad's Mental Health

The podcast for new and seasoned dads navigating the rollercoaster of fatherhood with a smile, a groan-worthy dad joke, and honest conversations about mental health.

In this intro episode, host James (a happily married dad of three living near Brighton) shares why he changed the podcast name from Dad Mind Matters, what you can expect moving forward, and how stories from other dads—along with some cold showers, jujitsu, and questionable songs—have helped him manage anxiety, OCD, and daily stress.

Whether you're wiping bums before breakfast or sneaking chocolate biscuits during nap time, this podcast is your reminder: you’re not alone, and it’s okay to laugh while figuring it all out.

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👉 Follow for weekly episodes packed with relatable stories, mental health tips, and a healthy dose of humour.

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Email: mydadmissions@gmail.com

To buy my book click this link

First Time Dad

Ever wonder what your children truly need from you more than toys, money, or even your advice?

In today’s world of broken routines, co-parenting dynamics, and constant distractions, many dads are struggling with how to be present, emotionally available, and a strong role model.

This episode offers an honest, heartfelt conversation that explores how simply showing up can shape your child’s entire life and your legacy as a father.

Here’s what you’ll walk away with after listening:

1) Real-life stories about how presence over perfection creates lasting memories

2) Insight from bestselling author and father of three, Jeff Nelligan.

3) Insights from James on how his dad modelled what a “good life lived” looks like

3) Practical wisdom on how to become a positive male role model in today’s culture no fluff, just real talk from two dads who've been there

Dad's Mental Health - Formerly known as “Dad Mind Matters,” is a newly rebranded podcast for new dads, stay-at-home dads, working dads, and sleep-deprived legends just trying to do their best.

Hosted by James, a husband, father of three, and resident of Brighton, UK—this show brings honest, relatable chats about what it really means to be a modern dad.

Welcome to Dad's Mental Health

The podcast for new and seasoned dads navigating the rollercoaster of fatherhood with a smile, a groan-worthy dad joke, and honest conversations about mental health.

In this intro episode, host James (a happily married dad of three living near Brighton) shares why he changed the podcast name from Dad Mind Matters, what you can expect moving forward, and how stories from other dads—along with some cold showers, jujitsu, and questionable songs—have helped him manage anxiety, OCD, and daily stress.

Whether you're wiping bums before breakfast or sneaking chocolate biscuits during nap time, this podcast is your reminder: you’re not alone, and it’s okay to laugh while figuring it all out.

To check out Jeff's best selling books please click this link

👉 Follow for weekly episodes packed with relatable stories, mental health tips, and a healthy dose of humour.

📩 Want to share your story or join James on a future episode?

Email: mydadmissions@gmail.com

To buy my book click this link

First Time Dad

Ever had a morning where just getting out of bed feels impossible?

You're not alone and this episode is for those moments when the weight of everything feels like too much.

As a dad, the pressure to always be strong, present, and put-together can be overwhelming especially when you're navigating depression or low mental health.

This episode speaks directly to those mornings when hope feels distant but the need to show up still lingers.

Whether you're currently struggling or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers grounded, real life strategies to help break through the fog.

In this episode, you will:

1) Discover 5 powerful mindset shifts to help you move forward, even on the hardest days.

2) Learn how simply being present can have a lasting impact on your children—even when you're not at your best.

3) Gain perspective, comfort, and a few laughs from a fellow dad who's walked through the same darkness and is here to remind you: you're not broken, you're human.

Press play now to hear five down-to-earth thoughts that might just help you win today even if winning just means getting out of bed.

Dad's Mental Health Podcast

👉 Follow for weekly episodes packed with relatable stories, mental health tips, and a healthy dose of humour.

📩 Want to share your story or join James on a future episode?

Email: mydadmissions@gmail.com

To buy my book click this link

First Time Dad

ABOUT THE HOST

Hello, I'm James & not long ago, I was a very anxious and somewhat overwhelmed husband & dad.

After about a decade of setbacks & enough coffee to sink a ship, I’m a much happier dad.

As previously mentioned, I want to try & help other dads be the best they can without losing their mental health.

Mental health battles are something I am all too familiar with.

In 2010, my GP suggested I do a 12-week CBT course with the NHS. During this course, I was diagnosed as having Pure OCD, which explained a lot.

To Buy My Audiobook, First Time Dad, Click this link

USEFUL RESOURCES

For your free digital copy of my book One Dad & His Dog

Please click this link

Again to be double awesome & leave a review on Amazon

Please click this link

Affiliate links

If you're a content creator looking to try some state of the art production & editing software you really need to check out Descript.

Descript has made my life so so much easier.

It's AI clever ness makes everything so much quicker which leaves me more time to make up some genuinely terrible Ukulele songs.

Click here to check out Descript

Looking for a new hosting platform with amazing analytics?

Try Captivate: Get A FREE - 7 Day Trial Here

Wanna Help?

If you want to help me develop this podcast please let a friend know about it. I hear you, no one has any spare time so here's an email template you could use.

Thanks in advance...

Welcome to the newly rebranded Dad's Mental Health

The podcast for new and seasoned dads navigating the rollercoaster of fatherhood with a smile, a groan-worthy dad joke, and honest conversations about mental health.

In this intro episode, host James (a happily married dad of three living near Brighton) shares why he changed the podcast name from Dad Mind Matters, what you can expect moving forward, and how stories from other dads—along with some cold showers, jujitsu, and questionable songs—have helped him manage anxiety, OCD, and daily stress.

Whether you're wiping bums before breakfast or sneaking chocolate biscuits during nap time, this podcast is your reminder: you’re not alone, and it’s okay to laugh while figuring it all out.

👉 Subscribe for biweekly episodes packed with relatable stories, mental health tips, and a healthy dose of humour.

📩 Want to share your story or join James on a future episode?

Email: mydadmissions@gmail.com

To buy my book click this link

First Time Dad