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Dear Dr. Tracy

Dear Dr. Tracy

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 Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.Cloud10 Développement personnel Hygiène et mode de vie sain Psychologie Psychologie et santé mentale Réussite
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  • Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough in Relationships

    Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough in Relationships
    Mar 12 2026
    A “sorry” can be sincere and still not land. Dr. Tracy and Greg unpack why so many couples get stuck in apology loops where the words get said, but the hurt doesn’t actually get repaired. One partner is left with that familiar sting of “okay… but nothing feels different,” while the other thinks, “I apologized, what more do you want?” The gap isn’t effort. It’s that sorry without repair doesn’t rebuild trust.They walk through the most common reasons apologies miss: performative sorries (“I’m sorry you feel that way”), apologies with no behavior change, shame-filled apologies that pull the hurt partner into soothing, and apologies that shut the conversation down too quickly. The shift they offer is simple but powerful: repair isn’t just about saying the right thing. Repair is about understanding impact, taking responsibility, making a plan for change, and staying present long enough for your partner to feel seen. Over time, that’s what prevents drift, resentment, and loneliness and helps couples come back together after conflict. LINKS FROM EPISODE: How to Respond to a Bad Apology. Grab your free guide here. After the Fight: How to Repair Workshop Feeling Stuck? - Free Guide to challenge your assumptions RESOURCES Get Relationship Coaching ⁠Inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 min
  • You’re Not His Therapist: You’re Choosing the High Road

    You’re Not His Therapist: You’re Choosing the High Road
    Mar 8 2026
    A lot of women are asking the same question right now: “So if my partner gets defensive, I’m supposed to be his therapist?” Dr. Tracy validates why that reaction makes sense, especially when you’re already exhausted, resentful, and carrying too much.She breaks down a common moment: you ask for help in a clear, non-attacking way, and your partner responds with defensiveness because shame gets activated. The key point is this: pausing to say “What’s going on right now?” isn’t you doing emotional labor for them. It’s you using your own agency to avoid the familiar low-road cycle of blame and escalation, so you can redirect back to the actual issue and still get your needs addressed. RESOURCES Get Relationship Coaching & Community ⁠Inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 min
  • A Thousand Tiny Paper Cuts: Why Resentment Gets So Heavy

    A Thousand Tiny Paper Cuts: Why Resentment Gets So Heavy
    Mar 5 2026
    Resentment isn’t the hot kind of anger that flares and fades. It’s the quiet kind that builds in the background, often after you’ve asked for something over and over, and nothing changes. Dr. Tracy reframes resentment as grief, grief for unmet needs, lost hope, invisibility, and the version of your relationship you thought you were coming home to.She walks through how resentment typically forms in stages: unmet need, repeated pattern, scorekeeping, shutdown, and finally silence. Then she offers a path forward that starts with naming the grief (instead of blaming), asking clearly for what you need in the present, and getting honest about the patterns that keep the cycle going. Resentment isn’t always the end, but it is a signal that something needs to change, and that honesty is the doorway back to agency and connection. LINKS FROM EPISODE: Learn to move past resentment. Save 50% on my Conquer Resentment workshop. Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel closer after the More Than Roommates Challenge. Join HERE. Get coaching and community support ⁠Inside⁠ ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feeling Stuck? - Free Guide to challenge your assumptions RESOURCES Get Relationship Support ⁠Inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    38 min
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