Do You Need an Erection to Have Great Sex? (SPOILER: No)
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Most of us learned that sex = penetration. Everything else? Foreplay. Warmup. Extra. But that model is outdated, limiting, and honestly? It's been sidelining everyone's pleasure for way too long.
But you should know that a soft penis is a functional penis. Soft penises can give pleasure and receive pleasure. And when you decentralize erections, a world of pleasure opens up.
In this episode, Stacey gets explicit about what sex can look like when penetration isn't on the menu—not as a consolation prize, but as genuinely satisfying, delicious sex.
In this episode:
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Why de-centering erections improves pleasure for all
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Shifting from goal-oriented to pleasure-oriented sex
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Delicious examples of what sex can look like with or without an erection
This isn't settling. It's expansion.
Next week: Part 6, the last episode in this series. Reclaiming desire and starting anew.
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