In this powerful and eye-opening episode of The School Run with Jane and Liv, we sit down with attachment, trauma and parent specialist, Michelle McLaughlin who has worked in childhood psychological services for 23 years.

Together, we explore:

🌱 The Power of Play

Why play isn’t just “fun”—it’s the language of children, the foundation of emotional development, and one of the most effective tools for healing and connection.

🔥 Emotional Dysregulation

What’s really happening when children “act out,” melt down, or shut down—

and how parents can respond with regulation, calm and connection (even when they feel overwhelmed themselves).

💔 Attachment & Trauma

How early experiences shape behaviour…

and how every adult in a child’s life can help rebuild safety, trust and secure attachment.

📱 Parenting in a High-Tech, High-Pressure World

The impact of screens and social media on children’s brains, attention and emotional wellbeing—

and practical steps families can take to stay connected in a digital-first world.

🤝 Connection Over Correction

The simple shifts that help parents move from managing behaviour to understanding the child behind it.

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👂 Why You’ll Love This Episode

It’s honest, human, practical and deeply reassuring.

Whether you’re a parent, carer, teacher, or someone who simply wants to understand children better, this conversation will leave you feeling:

✔ more confident

✔ more connected

✔ more empowered

✔ and more hopeful

If you have concerns please contact your GP, school or family hub.

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This episode is edited by Mike Roberts of ⁠Making Digital Real⁠