Episode 21: The Cost of Caring What Others Think
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It's not uncommon to care about what other people think.
It's normal to want to be respected and to be taken seriously. No one wants to look foolish or reckless.
But when we care too much about what others think, it distracts us and can make us lose sight of our own path. It becomes a matter of seeking external validation instead of living life bullish.
In this episode, Eric explores the real cost of caring what others think—and what happens when we stop letting their opinions dictate our choices.
Key Insights:
- The distraction of caring too much: When we worry about perception, we lose sight of what we actually want and start making decisions based on what will look right to everyone else
- Judgment is just projection: The people judging us aren't living our life—they have no frame of reference and project their own fears and insecurities onto our decisions
- Opinions are inevitable: No matter what we do, someone will have an opinion. Judgment is just that—an opinion. We can't control what people think, but we can control whether we let it stop us
- Evaluate your why: Are you making decisions based on what's right for you, or because you're afraid of what others will say? If it's the latter, you're not being bold—you're just stuck
- The opportunity cost is high: Caring too much means we risk living someone else's version of success, delaying action, second-guessing ourselves, and staying stuck in a life that looks good on paper but leads to regret
"We get to define our own success and identity. For me, that matters more than being judged by someone who doesn't understand us anyway."
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