Why Won't My Kids Do What I Ask?: The Trap of Expectation Over Explanation

Ever asked your kids to do something only to find it half-done—or not done the way you asked? You’re not alone. In this episode, Jackie explores one of the most common (and avoidable) frustrations in family life: the trap of expectations over explanations.

Drawing lessons from leadership and real-life parenting, she shares how many “disobedience” moments are actually moments of misunderstanding—and what parents can do differently. Jackie breaks down three practical steps for setting clear, teachable expectations that empower your kids to succeed, build confidence, and bring more peace and joy to your home.

So grab your coffee, tea, juice, or beverage of choice, and join Jackie for this thoughtful conversation on the power of clear communication, patient leadership, and parenting with purpose.

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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