PART 2 of my conversation with Violet (@imissviolet) goes deeper, into politics, protest culture, trans survival, sexuality, confidence, and what it actually means to build a livable future while you’re exhausted.

We talk about:
– Protest culture, burnout & why communities turn on themselves
– ACT UP, AIDS history & what’s been erased from collective memory
– Being trans in the current political climate
– Experiencing hate crime & navigating safety
– Gray sexuality, desire, communication & sex as “drag”
– Confidence, self-love, affirmations & building yourself up
– Foreplay as ritual, music, comfort & care

This episode is raw, funny, heavy at times, and deeply human.

This is PART 2 of a two-part conversation.
If you haven’t listened to PART 1 yet, start there first.

Content Warnings (PART 2):
Adult themes, sex & sexuality, gender identity & trans experience, hate crime discussion, political content, protest & activism, mental health, medical discussion (endometriosis, HPV), strong language.

Follow us:
Host: @fashionismyforeplay
Guest: @imissviolet

Listen on Spotify & watch on YouTube — search Fashion Is My Foreplay
Guest enquiries: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

Welcome back to Fashion Is My Foreplay, and we’re kicking off with Violet (@imissviolet) for a chaotic, honest, hilarious conversation that covers everything from London Fashion Week shows to identity, hormones, dating, and why pretending to be “normal” is overrated.

We talk about:
– How we met through the Dr Noki /fashion show circuit
– Modeling, TikTok, agencies & unexpected fashion moments
– Burnout, politics, community, and creating more than you consume
– Gender fluidity, pronouns, hormones & the reality of being perceived
– ADHD/autism, oversharing, and being real online
– Dating, falling fast, open relationships & communication

This is PART 1 — PART 2 is coming next week!

Content Warnings (PART 1):
Adult themes, sex & relationships, gender identity / trans experience, body image, mental health, eating disorder mention, neurodiversity discussion, discussion of surgery (FFS), and some strong language.

Follow us:
Host: @fashionismyforeplay
Guest: @imissviolet

🎧 Listen + watch: Spotify & YouTube (search Fashion Is My Foreplay)
💌 Guest enquiries: fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

I’m back ✨

After a short (and very unplanned) break thanks to tech chaos, Christmas, and life doing its thing, I’m finally back behind the mic with a little welcome-back mini episode.

In this solo chat, I catch you up on where I’ve been, what’s been going on in my life, why consistency sometimes disappears when you’re doing everything yourself, and what’s coming next for Fashion Is My Foreplay.

We talk:
– Taking breaks without guilt
– Sex, confidence, exes (because of course)
– Body image, saggy tits & still feeling sexy
– Manifesting, vision boards & New Year “resolutions”
– Money, credit scores & getting your shit together (slowly)
– Why the pod is my main focus this year

This episode is messy, honest, funny, and very much a “hi, this is where I’m at” reset, and now that my laptop is fixed, you’ll be hearing a lot more from me very soon.

If you’ve missed the pod, I’ve missed you xXx

🔗 WHERE TO FIND & FOLLOW ME

Podcast:
🎧 Fashion Is My Foreplay — available on Spotify & YouTube

Instagram:
📸 @fashionismyforeplay

TikTok:
🎥 @fashionismyforeplay

Email / Guest Enquiries:
💌 fashionismyforeplay@gmail.com

DMs are open. Chaos is welcome. Stories encouraged.