Have you ever wondered why your carefully worded suggestions get ignored, or why someone thought you were angry when you were simply being clear? The answer might lie in your influence style.

In this illuminating episode, Ken and Patti Leith delve into the third component of their Interface Methods collaboration tool: influence styles. Building on previous discussions about detail orientation and information processing, they explore the fascinating dynamic between direct and cautious communicators.

Direct communicators speak succinctly, state facts plainly, and get straight to the point. Cautious communicators use qualifying words (might, maybe, possibly), provide context, and emphasize diplomacy. While neither style is inherently better, these differences essentially create two different languages, even when both parties are speaking English.

Through engaging stories and relatable examples, Ken and Patti demonstrate how these communication differences lead to misunderstandings in both professional and personal settings. A cautious boss saying "you might want to consider waiting" might intend a firm directive, while the direct employee hears merely an optional suggestion. Similarly, when a direct person makes a straightforward statement, a cautious receiver often perceives more intensity or frustration than was ever intended.

What makes this challenge particularly difficult is that while we can adapt how we speak relatively easily, it's much harder to change how we hear and interpret others' communication. This places more responsibility on the message sender to adapt their delivery style to match the receiver's preference.

The good news? These differences are behavioral, not personality-based, which means they can be recognized and adapted to with practice. By spotting these differences and willingly adapting our approach, we can dramatically improve our connections with others.

Whether in the workplace, at home, or in community involvement, understanding these influence styles can transform our relationships. Join us to discover how to bridge these communication gaps and connect more effectively with everyone in your life.

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Art isn't just something to view—it's a catalyst for connection, hope, and transformation. That's the powerful message from Lela Davidson, Chief Operating Officer at Crystal Bridges Museum and the Momentary, who joined us to discuss the future of these remarkable institutions in Northwest Arkansas.

Davidson reveals exciting details about Crystal Bridges' ambitious expansion, adding 100,000 square feet through what museums call a "reinstallation"—not simply expanding physical space, but reimagining how visitors navigate collections and experience art relationships. Opening June 6, 2026, the expansion features a new crystal bridge structure, larger exhibition spaces, community engagement areas, and improved educational facilities. Most notably, the museum remains open throughout this extensive renovation process, reinforcing its commitment to accessibility.

What sets Crystal Bridges apart is its holistic approach to art as part of wellness. The museum campus now physically connects with the Alice Walton School of Medicine, where medical students incorporate art observation techniques into their training to develop stronger patient observation skills. This integration of art, nature, architecture, and wellness creates a unique destination experience while remaining deeply connected to local community needs.

Davidson paints a vivid picture of a museum that serves nearly 100,000 schoolchildren annually while hosting world-class exhibitions (including an upcoming Keith Haring show), outdoor sculptures, concerts, and speaker series. The expansion allows Crystal Bridges to become both a multi-day destination for tourists and a casual drop-in space for locals, all while maintaining free admission so visitors never feel pressured to "get their money's worth."

Whether you're a long-time art enthusiast or someone who simply appreciates beautiful spaces, Crystal Bridges offers something transformative. As Davidson says, "I challenge anyone to go on our calendars and not find something that they would like to do." Discover this unique intersection of art, architecture, and nature at crystalbridges.org and themomentary.org.

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What happens when you veer from the expected career path and embrace the unexpected turns life offers? Lela Davidson, Chief Operating Officer of Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art and the Momentary, joins Ken and Patti Leith to share her refreshingly honest journey through the professional landscape.

Davidson describes her career as "squiggly" rather than linear—starting as a CPA before moving through media, e-commerce, retail, and advertising before landing at one of America's premier art institutions. Far from seeing these transitions as setbacks, she frames them as opportunities that have culminated in meaningful community impact. Her story challenges us to reconsider how we view career progression and professional identity.

The conversation delves into a crucial leadership evolution that many professionals experience but few articulate so clearly. Davidson shares how she transformed from "being in the bush with a machete, hacking down whatever was in our path" to building sustainable infrastructure for others to succeed. This metaphor brilliantly captures the shift from individual contributor to truly strategic leader.

Throughout the discussion, Davidson offers wisdom on creating genuine feedback cultures, the power of community connections in Northwest Arkansas, and embracing failure as an inevitable part of growth. Her candid advice—"make your plans but don't worry about them too much"—serves as both permission and encouragement for those navigating their own career uncertainties.

Whether you're contemplating a career pivot, stepping into leadership, or simply seeking to build meaningful connections in your community, this conversation offers practical insights delivered with warmth and authenticity. As Davidson reminds us, "The only way you fail is if you stop trying."

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