This episode: The Haircut That Changed Everything: A Son’s Breaking Point and Bob Hayek’s Comeback That Followed.

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Introduction and Initial Greetings (0:01)

• Host Drew Deraney thanks the person who introduced him to Guest Bob Hayek, mentioning a networking group from 2020.
• Drew discusses the concept of life being linear until external circumstances disrupt it, leading to different paths.
• He introduces three types of men: those who don't see adversity, those who blame others, and those who see adversity as an opportunity for growth.
• Drew invites Bob Hayek to share his defining moment that transformed him.

Bob Hayek's Defining Moment (27:07)

• Bob Hayek recounts a moment when he cut his father's hair in the VA hospital, leading to a profound realization.
• Bob shares that his father passed away two days later, and he had a nervous breakdown.
• He describes a moment of self-realization while mowing the lawn, recognizing his achievements and independence.
• Bob's transformation led to his divorce, as his personal development clashed with his wife's stagnation.

Bob's Journey Post-Divorce (27:30)

• Bob meets a high school friend in Florida, leading to a shared living arrangement.
• His friend passes away in his arms, causing significant emotional turmoil.
• Bob struggles with dating and nearly gives up, but eventually meets Vivian, who becomes a pivotal figure in his life.
• Bob and Vivian's initial meeting involves a unique arrangement that leads to a deeper connection.

Bob's Relationship with His Children (27:50)

• Bob discusses the devastating impact of his children accusing him of harming their mother.
• He explains the miscommunication and misunderstanding that led to his children's accusations.
• Bob's relationship with his daughter improves, but his son remains affected.
• He emphasizes the importance of Vivian's support during these challenging times.

Bob's Career Transition and Achievements (28:09)

• Bob shares his journey from being a musician to working in the semiconductor industry.
• He recounts a significant incident where he successfully negotiated a deal despite initial rejection.
• Bob transitions to the insurance industry, driven by the residual income potential.
• His determination and hard work lead to success in the insurance business.

Introduction to ASEA and Health Challenges (28:50)

• Bob introduces ASEA, a company that produces products that communicate with the immune system.
• He shares his personal health challenges, including being diagnosed with MS.
• Bob moves to Florida to improve his health, and Vivian supports him throughout the transition.
• His involvement with ASEA leads to significant health improvements and a new business venture.

Bob's Involvement with ASEA and Future Plans (29:09)

• Bob discusses the benefits of ASEA's products, including the Redox supplement and RENU 28 gel.
• He shares a personal story of using the gel to alleviate shoulder pain.
• Bob expl...

This episode: The Rejection That Broke Him—And the Men’s Circle That Rebuilt His Life.

Here’s what you’ll learn about:

Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast (0:00)

• Host Drew Deraney initiates the recording and thanks Jason Lange for joining the podcast.
• Drew credits Rob Wentz for introducing Jason Lange.
• He discusses the concept of life as a straight path and how external circumstances can derail it.
• Drew introduces the three types of men: those who don't notice adversity, those who see it as a barrier, and those who see it as an opportunity.

Jason Lange's Transformative Moment (23:21)

• Jason Lange shares his experience of struggling with intimacy and connection with women in his mid-20s.
• He describes a pivotal moment during a date where he was rejected, leading to a collapse in his confidence.
• Jason explains how he joined men's groups and underwent healing work, including talk therapy and a transformative experience in a men's group.
• He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's pain and the impact of this realization on his life.

The Role of Men's Groups in Personal Growth (23:40)

• Jason discusses the significance of men's groups in providing a safe space for vulnerability and healing.
• He highlights the importance of explicit agreements in men's groups to create a trusting environment.
• Jason shares how his participation in men's groups helped him navigate significant life challenges, including career changes and personal relationships.
• He explains how his experience in men's groups led him to start Evolutionary Man to help other men through similar transformations.

Evolutionary Man and Its Impact (23:53)

• Jason describes the evolution of Evolutionary Man over the past decade, starting from his personal well-being to supporting other men.
• He explains how Evolutionary Man offers mentorship, men's groups, and life retreats to help men connect and support each other.
• Jason shares his mission to ensure every man has access to deep connection and support through Evolutionary Man.
• He discusses the importance of real, in-person connections over virtual ones for men's mental health and well-being.

Jason's Personal and Professional Journey (24:08)

• Jason reflects on the personal growth he experienced through Evolutionary Man and how it influenced his professional life.
• He shares his experience of meeting his wife and the positive impact of his personal growth on his relationships.
• Jason discusses the challenges of raising a child with hearing impairment and how his men's groups provided support during this time.
• He emphasizes the importance of community and connection in overcoming personal and professional challenges.

The Importance of Vulnerability and Connection (24:25)

• Jason highlights the significance of vulnerability and connection in men's groups, particularly in creating a supportive environment.
• He explains how men's groups help men share their burdens and feel less isolated.
• Jason discusses the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on men's mental health and the importance of maintaining connections during times of i...

This episode: The $40 Million Hack That Tried to Break Him — and the Comeback That Built Something Better.

Here’s what you’ll learn about:

Introduction and Purpose of the Interview (0:00)

• Host Drew Deraney thanks John Maas for introducing him to Adam Bergman and sets the stage for the interview.
• Drew discusses the concept of life being linear until adversity tests us, introducing three types of men: those who don't notice adversity, those who blame others, and those who see it as an opportunity for growth.
• He invites Guest Adam Bergman to share his defining moment and how it impacted him personally and professionally.

Adam Bergman's Defining Moment (1:38)

• Adam Bergman recounts a major turbulent event in February 2022 when his business, Irish Financial, faced a $40 million crypto hack.
• Despite having insurance, the hack was a significant trauma for Adam's business, which had over 20,000 accounts and $3 billion in assets.
• Adam describes the choices he had: to go bankrupt or fight, and how his wife's support was crucial in his decision to fight.
• He explains the long process of settling with clients and the FBI finding the criminal, which led to a positive outcome for his business.

Impact of the Hack and Personal Growth (4:59)

• Adam reflects on the personal and professional impact of the hack, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and learning from the experience.
• He discusses the need to clean house and replace loyal but underperforming team members, which led to the company's growth.
• Drew and Adam discuss the concept of people coming into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, and the importance of letting go when necessary.
• Adam shares a recent success story of a client who saw a significant return on their investment through a Roth IRA.

Understanding Roth and Traditional IRAs (5:51)

• Adam explains the differences between Roth and traditional IRAs, highlighting the tax benefits of each.
• He discusses the possibility of converting a traditional IRA to a Roth IRA and the importance of understanding these financial tools.
• Drew and Adam talk about the lack of financial education in traditional workplaces and the importance of sharing this knowledge.
• Adam shares his own journey of learning about Roth IRAs and how it changed his life and career.

Advice for Clients and Personal Reflections (8:01)

• Adam advises clients to invest in what they are interested in and to do their own research, as they tend to make better decisions.
• Drew asks Adam to reflect on what might have happened if he had given up, and Adam expresses certainty that he would be in a bad place.
• Adam shares his hobbies, including playing around with AI and spending time with his three young children.
• He emphasizes the importance of being curious, questioning authority, and continuously learning throughout life.

Final Thoughts and Advice for Young Entrepreneurs (10:18)

• Adam advises his younger self to be more curious and to focus on the business, emphasizing the importance of loyalty and skill sets.
• He advises young entrepreneurs to be patient and prepared to work for at least 10 years, as success takes time and effort.