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From Nigeria to Nursing Professor: Idongesit Obeya (Ep. 199) - Part 1

From Nigeria to Nursing Professor: Idongesit Obeya (Ep. 199) - Part 1

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Key Themes
  1. Identity & Belonging

    • The tension of "you've arrived here, now who are you?" Many immigrants carry a dual identity: rooted in a homeland + building a future elsewhere.

    • Letting go of perfection: striving to fit in often causes people to lose parts of what made them uniquely strong.

    • Belonging isn't only about external acceptance. It begins internally — how you carry yourself, how you reconcile "old home" and "new home."

  2. Financial Literacy in a New Context

    • Systems you took for granted in your home country (banking, credit, retirement, investments) often work differently or not at all here.

    • Language of finance and culture: Understanding the rules is one thing; feeling comfortable playing the game is another.

    • Your immigrant status (first or second generation) is not a barrier — but lack of tailored support or advice is.

  3. Cultural Transition & Adaptation

    • Adapting doesn't mean assimilation. Your former cultural values are inputs, not mistakes to erase.

    • Work-life balance can shift in surprising ways when you move across cultures — expectations, definitions of success, even rest change.

    • Boundaries become crucial. Setting them early prevents overwhelm and identity drift.

  4. High Achievement & Hidden Costs

    • For high-achieving immigrants, success often comes with hidden stress: needing to prove, over‐performing, feeling isolated.

    • There's a trap in "doing everything" and never pausing to ask "is this what I want?"

    • Forgiveness and rest are underrated. The culture of achievement here sometimes doesn't give you permission to just be.

Major Takeaways
  • You don't have to choose between "origin" and "destination". Use both. Your background gives strengths (perspective, resilience) you might be ignoring.

  • Step into the financial system with curiosity, not fear. Ask: What can I learn? What do I need to protect? What am I aiming for?

  • Boundaries = freedom, not restriction. Saying no to what drains you makes room for what nourishes you.

  • Culture shift is more marathon than sprint. Some parts integrate fast, others slowly. Accept mis‐steps as part of the process.

  • Achievement without alignment leads to burnout. Checking boxes doesn't always equal satisfaction. Clarify values, not just goals.

  • Belonging is active. It's a daily choice: engaging with community, voice, identity. It's not passive acceptance.

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