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  • The Secret to Youth Sports Leadership: Why Helping Others Beats Winning Every Time - Part 2
    Jul 18 2025
    Game Changers: Athlete Edition - Episode Show Notes The Secret to Youth Sports Leadership: Why Helping Others Beats Winning Every Time - Part 2 Hosts: Kortney Harmon & Julie Jones Guest: Dr. Jason Ronai Episode Type: Part 2 of Leadership Discussion Episode Overview In this powerful continuation of our leadership conversation, Dr. Jason Ronai joins hosts Kortney Harmon and Julie Jones to dive deep into what real leadership looks like in youth sports. This isn't your typical leadership discussion - it's a research-backed exploration of how helping others becomes the foundation of authentic leadership development. Key Topics Discussed The Environment Effect on Youth Athletes Dr. Ronai shares a fascinating story from the Navy Baseball Leadership CampHow parental presence in the stands dramatically changed player behaviorThe impact of external voices on young athletes' decision-makingCreating growth-oriented environments free from distractions The Truth About Why Kids Play Sports Research reveals children choose sports for fun and friends - not opinion, but factWhat "fun" actually means to youth athletes (spoiler: winning was ranked 48th)The top 6 reasons kids find sports fun: Feeling of trying your bestCoach treats players with respectGetting playing timePlaying well as a teamGetting along with teammatesBeing active The Youth Sports Crisis 70% of youth athletes drop out by age 13 because it's "no longer fun"The $40 billion youth sports industry and what it's breakingHow exclusionary travel sports impact community leaguesThe importance of sport sampling vs. early specialization Redefining Leadership for Young Athletes Leadership isn't about titles or being the starThe power of helping others as the foundation of leadershipHow helping prevents negative behaviors like tantrums and self-pityBuilding relationships that lead to superior team performance Research-Backed Benefits Children with higher ACE scores (adverse childhood experiences) show better mental health outcomes when playing team sportsMulti-sport participation leads to longer athletic careersThe physical and mental benefits of diverse athletic experiences Practical Parenting Strategies Developing family core values around sports participationFighting against external validation cultureCreating intrinsic motivation rather than outcome-focused thinkingSimple mantras: "I'm safe, I'm empowered, I'm loved, I can do hard things" The Real Numbers Game What parents focus on: Winning (48th), Tournaments (63rd), Private instruction (66th)What kids actually want: Fun, friends, respect, playing time, teamwork96-98% of youth athletes won't receive college scholarships Notable Quotes "Great leaders are honest, competent, inspiring, forward looking individuals and choose to be poised, growth oriented, conscientious competitors who positively impact people and organizations in order to achieve mission driven results that exceed expectations." - Dr. Jason Ronai "It's impossible to help and be a jerk at the same time." - Dr. Jason Ronai "We don't play to win because if we played to win, I would have quit coaching immediately." - Julie Jones Guest Information Dr. Jason Ronai is a district athletic director for 17 high schools in Chicago, overseeing approximately 400 coaches. He's a former Division 1 baseball and basketball player with professional baseball experience. Dr. Ronai is the author of "Endless Teachable Moments: An Expression of the Art and Education of Sport," which combines essays and poetry to capture the transformative power of athletics. Resources Mentioned Book: "Endless Teachable Moments: An Expression of the Art and Education of Sport" by Dr. Jason RonaiAvailable on Amazon and other book retailersInternational Journal of Coaching Science research on youth motivationACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) test research Key Takeaways for Parents and Coaches Focus on helping others - This is the foundation of real leadershipEstablish family values around sports participation earlyPrioritize fun and friendship - these are the real reasons kids playSupport multi-sport participation as long as possibleCreate environments where kids can fail and learn without judgmentFight against external validation cultureRemember the statistics - most kids won't get scholarships, so focus on life lessons Call to Action Reflect on your family's core values around sports participationConsider how you can help young athletes focus on helping othersSupport local community leagues and inclusive sports programsShare this episode with other parents and coaches who could benefit DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental ...
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    43 min
  • Choose to Lead: Building Tomorrow's Leaders Through Youth Sports - Part 1
    Jul 4 2025
    Episode Overview In this powerful conversation, Dr. Jason Ronai shares his expertise on leadership development for athletes at every level. The discussion focuses on how true leadership isn't about titles, but about influence, and provides practical tools that athletes can implement immediately - whether they're team captains or not. Hosts: Kortney Harmon - Former Division 1 College Softball Pitcher turned high-performance business coachJulie Jones - Hall of Fame coach with over 20 years of D1 softball coaching experience and certified mental performance specialist Guest: Dr. Jason Ronai - Expert in athlete leadership development and author of "Endless Teachable Moments" Key Topics & Timestamps Leadership Philosophy & Foundation (00:00 - 10:00) Dr. Ronai's comprehensive leadership philosophy from his doctorate programThe most important word in leadership: "CHOOSE"Breaking down complex leadership concepts for youth athletesThe "Two Beasts" concept: Growth-oriented vs. Poison beast The Mountain Climbing Metaphor (10:00 - 15:00) Leadership as climbing a mountain toward "competitive greatness"Choosing conscientiousness and working hard dailyBuilding habits of overcoming obstaclesThe importance of "figuring it out" and applying self-knowledge Age-Appropriate Leadership Development (15:00 - 20:00) Why young athletes shouldn't be pressured to be "leaders" immediatelyStarting with being a "good helper" and taking personal responsibilityBuilding standards of behavior, communication, and body languageThe progression from helper → great teammate → positive influencer → leader The Six E's Framework (20:00 - 30:00) Effort: Complete focus and articulation of concentrationEnergy: Positive body language that shows readinessEnthusiasm: Excitement for the success of othersEncouragement: Having courage to give and receive feedbackExecution: Conscientiousness in all actions and movementsElimination: Removing DEBTS (Distraction, Embarrassment, Taunting, Sarcasm, Self-pity) The Value of Failure & Teachable Moments (30:00 - 40:00) Why high achievers often struggle more with failureThe endless teachable moments available through sportsHow team sports create opportunities to overcome both success and failureBuilding habits of resilience through athletic experiences Embracing Failure & Building Toughness (40:00 - 45:00) Painting realistic pictures of what will happen in sportsThe two core values: Poise (proactive mindset) and Toughness (reactive habits)Preparing athletes mentally for inevitable mistakes and adversityBuilding trust through consistent responses to failure Modern Challenges: Social Media & External Pressures (45:00 - End) Navigating increased distractions and external pressuresHelping athletes develop personal core valuesStrategies for dealing with social media negativityThe importance of focusing on internal standards vs. external opinions Key Quotes "Great leaders are honest, competent, inspiring, forward looking individuals and choose to be poised, growth oriented, conscientious competitors who positively impact people and organizations in order to achieve mission driven results that exceed expectations." "The most important word in leadership is 'choose' - we choose our core values, our standards of behavior, our standards of body language, and our standards of communication." "Leadership is just a constant growth and awareness process in which you aim to be positive and an empowering influence on others through your habits, values, words, skills and actions." "We have this window of time in which children can extract the most amount of values and positive experiences and failure along the way in a really safe setting." Actionable Takeaways For Young Athletes: Start with personal responsibility - Get your equipment ready, be organizedFocus on being a good helper before trying to be a leaderPractice the Six E's daily in training and competitionEmbrace mistakes as learning opportunities, not failuresDevelop your own core values as you mature For Parents: Don't pressure young children to be leaders - let them develop graduallyCreate environments where mistakes are learning processesFocus on growth-oriented mindsets over outcomesHelp children navigate external pressures and social mediaModel the standards of behavior you want to see For Coaches: Establish clear standards of behavior, body language, and communicationUse rubrics and evaluations around character developmentCreate "no fear, no embarrassment" environmentsFocus on process over outcomes in youth sportsProvide endless teachable moments through sports experiences Resources Mentioned "Endless Teachable Moments" by Dr. Jason RonaiThe Leadership Challenge study (five-decade research on admired leader characteristics)Coach K's "no fear, no embarrassment" policyPatrick Murphy's "mutita" concept from University of Alabama Next Episode Preview Tune in 2 weeks from now for Part 2 of this conversation! DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and ...
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    44 min
  • How Parents Shape Athletic Culture and Support Their Child’s Sports Journey
    Jun 20 2025

    On this episode of Game Changers – Athlete Edition, co-hosts Julie Jones and Courtney Harmon are joined by JP Nerbun, renowned author of "The Sport Parent Solution," to dive deep into the crucial but often overlooked role parents play in their athletes' sports experiences.

    From dinner table conversations to sideline reactions, the trio unpacks how parental beliefs and actions shape team culture, impact athletes’ mindsets, and even influence how coaches approach communication. JP shares practical questions parents can ask themselves to keep their focus on growth, effort, and values instead of outcomes and playing time. Julie and Kortney open up about the challenges and joys of being both coaches and sports parents, and invite listeners to reflect on how their support can make sports a truly positive and transformative journey for their kids.

    You’ll walk away with powerful insights on building resilience, fostering gratitude, teaching accountability, and promoting a lifelong love for sports—all while keeping perspective and having fun along the way. Whether you’re a parent in the stands, a coach, or an athlete, this conversation is full of actionable takeaways and real talk that will help elevate your game—on and off the field.

    Be sure to check out the show notes for JP’s book links, essential reflection questions, and more resources for supporting the athletes in your life!

    — If you enjoy this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, share with another sports parent or coach, and follow us on social media for more inspiration and exclusive content.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • JP Nerbun’s books: The Culture System https://a.co/d/5WZFmR9

    • JP Nerbun’s books: The Sport Parents Solution. https://www.amazon.com/Sports-Parent-Solution-Strategies-Transforming/dp/B0CT6GQHND
    • The Coaching Culture Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/336Hs8udk8s0yXuK3BzSOq?si=4a528e075de54ecf DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk.

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    43 min
  • Building Extraordinary Team Cultures: Insights from JP Nerbun for Athletes and Coaches
    May 30 2025

    Welcome back to another powerful episode of Game Changers – Athlete Edition! This week, co-hosts Kortney Harmon and Julie Jones sit down with JP Nerbun—bestselling author, leadership coach, founder of TOC Culture Consulting, and renowned expert in sports culture and leadership.

    JP dives into the nuances of building winning team cultures, offering practical wisdom for athletes, coaches, and parents. He explains why cultivating culture isn’t about tearing everything down and starting over—instead, it’s more like tending a garden: nurturing what’s good, pulling out the weeds, and helping everyone thrive.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • The athlete’s vital role in shaping and sustaining positive team culture.

    • How to lead by example, especially when things get tough.

    • The power of reframing setbacks and fostering an outward, giving mindset.

    • Concrete strategies for managing negativity within teams, including the toxic effects of unchecked complaining.

    • JP’s top three culture-building mistakes—and how to avoid them.

    • Key traditions and everyday actions that drive lasting transformation, plus why “little” efforts (like post-practice tea and chats) can create big shifts.

    • The value of identifying your personal non-negotiables and clarifying what it takes to be successful as an athlete or teammate.

    • Why embracing every individual, from star players to janitors and groundskeepers, shapes team identity and unity.

    JP also shares insights from his books, Calling Up: Discovering Your Journey to Transformational Leadership and The Culture System, making this episode a must-listen for anyone eager to elevate their team’s environment, whether you’re an athlete, coach, or sports parent.

    Stay tuned for next episode: JP returns to discuss the parent’s impact on team culture, sharing actionable advice for turning parents into valuable allies.

    Connect with Us If you found today’s episode helpful, share it with your team, your coach, or anyone who could use a boost of inspiration. Don’t forget to subscribe for more mindset strategies, leadership lessons, and success stories from game changers around the world.

    Resources Mentioned:

    • JP Nerbun’s books: The Culture System https://a.co/d/5WZFmR9

    • JP Nerbun’s books: The Sport Parents Solution. https://www.amazon.com/Sports-Parent-Solution-Strategies-Transforming/dp/B0CT6GQHND
    • The Coaching Culture Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/336Hs8udk8s0yXuK3BzSOq?si=4a528e075de54ecf DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk.

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    40 min
  • From NFL to Bobsled: Michael Blair on Confidence, Coaching, and Building Winners
    May 16 2025

    In this powerful episode of Game Changers - Athlete Edition, hosts Kortney Harmon, Julie Jones, and Courtney Harmon sit down with Michael Blair—former NFL player, bobsledder, actor, keynote speaker, coach, founder of 9010 Sports Bobsled Team, and recipient of the Presidential Lifetime Community Service Award. Michael shares his extraordinary journey through professional football, the icy tracks of bobsled, and his current work shaping the next generation of athletes through his innovative sports and vocational academy.

    Listeners will learn:

    • Why coaching is less about telling and more about listening—and how that fosters true development

    • The “90 mental, 10 physical” philosophy and why focusing on the mind is key for young athletes

    • The importance of community, shared experiences, and intellectual skills over solitary training

    • Michael’s honest account of conquering self-doubt when transitioning from football to bobsledding in his 40s

    • The small but profound milestones that build confidence and competitive spirit in kids

    • How coaches—whether parents or professionals—can better support, communicate, and lead athletes in today’s sports culture

    Whether you’re a parent, coach, or current athlete, Michael’s insights on resilience, staying present, and redefining success will inspire you to embrace every challenge, nurture competence over comparison, and focus on lifelong growth—not just on the scoreboard.

    Tune in for practical tips, inspiring stories, and a reminder that champions aren’t born—they’re built with the right mindset, perseverance, and a lot of heart.

    DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk.

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    1 h et 8 min
  • Grit, Growth, and Kindness: Katie Scott’s Journey from Small-Town Athlete to Pro Soccer
    May 2 2025

    In this inspiring episode of Game Changers Athlete Edition, co-hosts Kortney Harmon and Julie Jones sit down with 17-year-old professional soccer player Katie Scott for a candid conversation about her rapid rise through the ranks—from a competitive hometown sports family to the Kansas City Current, Penn State, and the U.S. National Team. Katie shares her firsthand perspective on what it was like to grow up in an elite athletic household, the value of playing multiple sports, and how her parents’ support (and hands-off approach) shaped her journey.

    Listeners will gain insight into the off-field habits that set Katie apart, including nutrition, recovery, and mental skills like the all-important “reset” for moving on from mistakes. Katie opens up about the challenges of injury setbacks, handling the pressure of high-level selection, and the importance of building relationships and a positive team culture. She also discusses leadership, the power of making a difference beyond stats, and the habits and mindset that helped her excel—even when she wasn’t in the starting lineup.

    Whether you’re a student-athlete, parent, or coach, Katie’s maturity, gratitude, and wisdom will leave you motivated to approach your own journey with fresh perspective. Don’t miss this episode packed with real stories, mental strategies, and a reminder that greatness is built every day, on and off the field.

    DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk. 


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    56 min
  • Parenting Elite Athletes: How the Scott Family Nurtured Professional and Collegiate Sports Success
    Apr 18 2025

    In this special episode of Game Changers – Athlete Edition, hosts Kortney Harmon, Julie Jones sit down with Karen and Nick Scott, the parents behind rising soccer star Katie Scott. The Scotts share their real, unfiltered perspective on raising not just a pro athlete, but a family of driven competitors. From juggling hectic schedules with four active kids to finding the balance between support and pressure, they dive deep into the family dynamics that helped Katie reach the NWSL and represent the U.S. national team.

    Discover their approach to motivation, resilience, and navigating setbacks at high levels of competition—plus, why “having fun” is still their most important advice both for parents and aspiring athletes. The Scotts open up about sibling support, managing parental emotions on the sidelines, letting kids build their own fire, and the difference between living for the game and living a well-rounded life. Whether you’re a sports parent, coach, or athlete, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice straight from a family that’s been at every stage of the athletic journey.

    Stay tuned for the follow-up, where you’ll hear directly from Katie about her own journey, but for now, don’t miss the inside scoop from the people who know her best.

    DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk. 


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    51 min
  • Unlock Your Why: Transforming Mindsets for Peak Athletic Performance - Part 2 of 2
    Apr 4 2025

    In this episode of Game Changers Athlete Edition, host Kortney Harmon and co-host Julie Jones dive into the powerful topic of finding an athlete's "why." They unpack the significance of understanding personal motivation, which can transform an athlete from saying "I have to do this" to "I want to do this." Julie, with her extensive experience in mental performance, shares insights on how vulnerability and relatable experiences can connect athletes to their sport. They discuss the importance of creating a nurturing environment where understanding one's motivation is key to resilience during challenges.

    The episode also highlights the practice of consistently recalling one's "why" through exercises like the Five Whys technique and journaling, which can be crucial for maintaining focus during difficult times. The hosts emphasize how internally motivated athletes are better equipped to handle pressure and stress by employing task-oriented coping strategies. They offer actionable advice for athletes to develop their own distinctive "why" statements and incorporate practices such as intention circles and evidence journals to maintain continuous growth and connection to their goals.

    This episode is packed with invaluable insights on merging intrinsic motivation with sports performance, ensuring athletes can endure and thrive in their athletic journeys. Whether you're a player, coach, or parent, you'll come away with strategies to better guide and support athletes in uncovering their unique motivations. DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only and does not constitute professional coaching or mental health advice. Do not disregard, avoid, or delay obtaining advice from qualified professionals because of something you may have heard in an episode of Game Changers: Athlete Edition. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for professional coaching, mental performance, or medical advice. Please consult with qualified professionals for proper evaluation and guidance specific to your situation. Guests who speak on this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Neither the Game Changers: Athlete Edition hosts nor any company providing support endorses or opposes any particular training, coaching, or treatment methods discussed in the episodes. They are not responsible for any actions or inactions of listeners based on the information presented. The strategies, tips, and information shared in this podcast are based on the hosts' experiences and professional expertise, but results may vary. The use of any information provided is solely at your own risk. 


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    33 min