In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Ran Crawford dive into the concept of love languages infused with biblical principles. The discussion opens with a reflection on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and its relevance to love and marriage. They then explore the five love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch—offering practical insights and personal anecdotes. Emphasizing the importance of communication, honesty, and mutual respect, the hosts provide actionable advice for nurturing a healthy, loving relationship grounded in Christian faith.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:21 Biblical Principles of Love

02:12 The Power of Words in Love

06:27 Acts of Service in Relationships

09:42 Receiving Gifts and Constructive Criticism

14:07 Embracing Growth Through New Experiences

14:41 The Importance of Quality Time

16:25 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships

19:06 Creative Ways to Spend Quality Time

19:35 The Power of Physical Touch

20:12 Addressing Medical and Lifestyle Barriers

24:12 The Significance of Emotional Intimacy

25:33 Exploring and Accepting Love Languages

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford delve into the essence of leadership within a marriage. They emphasize the importance of both spouses contributing to a thriving, God-fearing relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5:21, the discussion covers mutual submission, the roles of spiritual leadership, and the dynamic of co-leadership in various aspects including parenting, finances, and spiritual growth. Through anecdotes and thoughtful insights, they highlight how mutual respect, wisdom, and collaboration are crucial for a successful and balanced partnership. This episode also addresses common challenges and offers practical advice on nurturing each other’s strengths and maintaining unity in the pursuit of a shared vision.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:16 The Heart of Leadership in Marriage

00:39 Spiritual Leadership and Mutual Submission

01:31 The Role of Co-Leadership in Marriage

02:28 Challenges and Solutions in Marital Leadership

06:06 Encouraging Growth and Support in Marriage

13:30 Leadership in Different Aspects of Marriage

15:33 The Importance of a Supportive Village

15:51 Co-Parenting in the Same Household

16:21 Unified Parenting Strategies

18:15 Balancing Humor and Responsibilities

19:51 Embracing Each Other's Gifts

22:12 The Role of Leadership in Relationships

24:28 Navigating Sleep and Work Balance

28:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of 'Get Married. Stay Married.,' host Lady T and co-host Pastor Randall Crawford discuss the critical influence of one's social circle on personal growth, relationships, and faith. They emphasize the importance of surrounding oneself with wise and supportive individuals as per Proverbs 13:20, and examine the negative impacts of toxic company. From dating advice to maintaining a healthy marriage, the discussion covers curating your social media, setting boundaries, and recognizing unhealthy behaviors such as gossip, competition, and lack of support. The hosts also outline the qualities of trustworthy and honest relationships, and the significance of having stretch friends who challenge you to grow. Concluding with a reflection exercise, this episode provides actionable insights for creating a positive and faith-aligned social circle.

00:00 Welcome and Introductions

00:13 The Importance of Your Circle

02:01 Influence of Habits and Company

06:11 Toxic Company and Social Media

07:52 Identifying Healthy vs Unhealthy Relationships

10:03 The Dangers of Gossip

12:19 Competition and Jealousy

15:04 Lack of Support in Relationships

18:10 The Dangers of Comparison

18:35 Jealousy and Hard Work

20:41 The Importance of Trust in Relationships

22:13 Shared Values and Accountability

25:21 Stretch Friends and Growth Mindset

29:50 Setting Healthy Boundaries

33:15 Reflecting on Your Circle