“ Pleasure is not a luxury, it’s your birthright”

This week, the Good Moms are joined by intimacy expert, author, and as we’ve decided to call her “Sex Santa” Susan Bratton for a funny and informative look into pleasure, partnership, and personal transformation through the exploration of your body.

From 12 years of sexless marriage to becoming a global educator on over 20 types of orgasms, Susan shares how she turned her own bedroom into a second career filled with vibrators, science, and soul-level healing. The three caht about everything from vulva-friendly sex toys to throatgasms, ethical non-monogamy, and the quiet power of a well-prepped yoni massage.

You can expect to hear:

(12:10) Susan’s previously dull sex life, awakening through pleasure, and how orgasmic healing saved her marriage

(20:00) What it means to be an “orgasmonaut” and why most women are settling for way too little in and out of the bedroom

(28:45) Susan breaks down over 20 orgasm types, including throatgasms, analgasms, nipplegasms, and more

(35:10) The science behind expanded orgasm and why it’s not just about sex it’s about source

(44:20) Yoni massage, the Queen vibrator, and why most sex toys are designed without Black women in mind

(51:50) Thrust-in-time: a Taoist technique to make intercourse more orgasmic and deeply connective

(1:03:30) Why Susan loves sex toys that vibe with your partner, not just beside them

(1:07:00) Grandmas use vibrators too

(1:10:45) Cannabis and your libido

(1:19:20) Ethical non-monogamy, kitchen table polyamory, and how she manages a husband and a boyfriend with her daughter’s full knowledge

(1:27:15) STI testing without the awkward clinic trip and how new tech makes screening easier than ever

(1:32:40) Affirmation of the Week: “More toys, more orgasms, more joy. Pleasure is my birthright.”

Whether you're solo, partnered, or just vibing with curiosity, this episode offers a powerful reminder: pleasure is not a luxury, it's information, it’s medicine, and it’s yours to claim.

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Links mentioned in this week's episode:

• orgasmicintercourse.com – A free resource for learning techniques for orgasmic intercourse.
• fullpaneltest.com – STI home testing service
• thrustintime.com –Technique for deeper sexual connection and stimulation.
• betterlover.com – education and resources on sex, intimacy, and pleasure.
• Lexus/Kiiro- LINK HERE

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This week, the Good Moms are joined by comedian, and host of "Jess A Couple Things" podcast, Jessie Woo for a layered conversation on family, culture, ambition, and accountability.

From growing up as the oldest daughter in a strict Haitian household to finding her voice in the entertainment industry. The three chat about everything from mother wounds and cultural silence to anime porn, and Jessie's "crush" on Morgan Freeman 👀. It’s honest, hilarious, and might be exactly what you or a friend may need to hear.

You can expect to hear:

(04:10) Jessie shares the origins of her content career and how Haitian comedy got her noticed

(12:35) Moving to New York, losing everything, and lying her way into her first network gig

(19:00) Why saying “yes” when you’re not fully ready can change your life

(23:45) The viral moment Jessie said “my mom birthed me, but didn’t f*** with me”… and the internet backlash that followed

(31:20) How mother-daughter relationships shape adult intimacy, boundaries, and the way we receive love

(36:55) A revealing brunch with Jessie’s mom and her man that turned into an unexpected emotional breakthrough, but revealed that there is still work to do...

(44:40) Why first-born daughters are often raised, and not "loved"

(51:10)sibling resentment

(58:00) Cultural expectations for Caribbean girls vs boys and why her upbringing made her resilient, but guarded

(1:06:45) Thoughts on validation, emotional gaslighting, and the trap of performative parenting

(1:13:10) Jessie on love, faith, titties, and why Morgan Freeman might secretly be fine

(1:20:00) Bad Choice of the Week: anime porn, laptops, and kids who know too much

(1:25:15) Affirmation of the Week: “I have everything I need to be the best me this world should receive”

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Happy Father's Day Tribe!

Welcome back to Good Mom Bad Choices! This week we are joined by comedian, actor and voice over extraordinaire ‪@TonyBakercomedy‬! Tune into the conversation as Tony confesses his favorite sex position, porn category, journey to Hollywood as an extra.

In this week’s episode, we switch gears and deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and the tragic loss of Tony’s child in 2021. Tony shares advice to those who experienced the death of a child and the importance of loving our loved ones out loud while they are here. This was a hilarious and heartfelt conversation you don’t want to miss. In this episode, you can expect to hear:

• Journey to Stardom: Tony Baker talks Transformers, stand-up comedy, his road to Hollywood (6:00)
• The Good Mom Effect: The ladies and Tony discuss Baby Boy roleplaying, cursing during sex, and bringing out your animal side (17:30)
• Theater 101: The Good Moms and Tony have fun with voiceover improv (34:00)
• Trigger: Tony talks fatherhood, favorite positions, and interracial dating (45:15)
• Men Heal Too: Tony shares his experience navigating the grief of losing a child and finding forgiveness (1:04:45)

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