This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

In this episode of Grey Minds Think Alike, we are joined by two influential advocates, Barry Goldstein and Veronica York, whose groundbreaking work has reshaped our understanding of child safety, domestic violence, and family court reform. Barry is a nationally recognized domestic violence expert, author, and attorney, while Veronica is a certified high-conflict divorce coach and survivor advocate. Together, they have leveraged their expertise to educate the courts and professionals handling family cases. In this episode, they discuss their new book, 'Preventing Domestic Violence and Child Abuse,' and explore crucial research, including the ACE and Saunders studies, that highlight the adverse effects of ignoring domestic violence in custody cases. Watch as they share their journey, offer insights into the challenges within the family court system, and highlight the essential role we all play in protecting our children and empowering survivors.

About Barry Goldstein and Veronica York:

Barry Goldstein

Barry Goldstein is a nationally recognized domestic violence expert, author, and attorney with more than 40 years of experience in family law and abuse prevention. A former prosecutor and instructor for judges and court professionals, Barry has trained thousands on the importance of understanding Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) and the Saunders Study in custody decisions.

He has served as Director of Research for the Stop Abuse Campaign and authored several influential books, including The Quincy Solution and Scared to Leave, Afraid to Stay. Barry’s testimony and expertise have shaped policy, guided reform, and saved lives.

Now, as co-editor of Preventing Domestic Violence and Child Abuse: Medical, Law Enforcement, Judicial and Human Benefits (with Dr. Mo Therese Hannah and Veronica York), Barry is helping to connect public health research to legal reform — showing that protecting children and survivors isn’t just justice, it’s prevention.

Veronica York

Veronica York is a Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach, expert witness, and survivor-advocate specializing in domestic violence, coercive control, and family court reform. After a 20-year career in the television industry, Veronica was driven by personal experience to help parents facing the trauma of custody disputes involving abuse.

She holds advanced training in Family Law Mediation and works alongside Barry Goldstein, providing expert testimony, research, and reports for high-conflict custody cases. Veronica frequently speaks and writes about the misuse of “parental alienation,” post-separation abuse, and trauma-informed advocacy.

As co-editor of Preventing Domestic Violence and Child Abuse, she brings a survivor’s perspective to the national conversation — uniting medical, legal, and community efforts to prevent abuse before it happens. Her mission: a court system that prioritizes safety, evidence, and the lived realities of survivors and children.

www.BarryGoldstein.net

About Ali Kessler

Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless...

This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

About Lynn Stroud:

Drawing from her extensive lived experience with reproductive coercion, domestic abuse, and sexual assault, Lynn Stroud delves into cultivating a trauma-informed mindset and increased legal remedies for victims. She stresses the significance of listening without judgment, validating survivors' experiences, and recognizing the resilience that often emerges from adversity. Stroud addresses common misconceptions about trauma and emphasizes the need for ongoing education and awareness. She hopes to serve as a beacon of understanding and compassion, offering a roadmap for survivors, advocates, law enforcement, and beyond to increase their knowledge of reproductive coercion. By sharing her story, she hopes more listeners will recognize the warning signs and dangers of coercion, embrace knowledge, and actively seek out proactive change. Her hope is that one day we can collectively build a world where survivors are not only heard but supported in their paths to healing and empowerment.

About Ali Kessler

Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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This is your go-to Podcast, where we help parents navigate the complexities of family life. Hosted by Ali Kessler of Greyson’s Choice, we’ll cover everything from understanding domestic violence to navigating the legal system, finding the right therapists, life hacks, family law, mental health, custody battles, and how to protect children in dangerous situations.

In this episode of Grey Minds Think Alike, host Ali Kessler speaks with Ramya Shripathi, a certified human potential life coach from India, about rebuilding confidence, finding balance, and healing after trauma. Ramya shares her personal journey from being a people pleaser to a human potential and narcissistic abuse coach. She explains her integrative approach that includes shadow work, somatic recovery, and Reiki. Ramya discusses the challenges of narcissistic abuse, the importance of self-care, and practical tools for survivors to start their healing journey. Tune in to hear insightful conversations on overcoming trauma and empowering yourself.

About Ramya Shripathi:

Ramya Shripathi is a globally recognized Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Support Life Coach and the Founder of ActivateYou, a Bangalore-based life coaching practice with clients across the world.

As a Shadow Alchemist and Healing Rebel, Ramya specializes in guiding survivors of narcissistic abuse through Shadow Work, Inner Child Healing, Somatic Recovery, Reiki, and CPTSD healing. Her integrative approach blends psychology, spirituality and energy work.

Ramya is known for her compassionate yet powerful presence, helping individuals rebuild self-worth, set boundaries, and reclaim their authentic voice. She is also a strong advocate for raising awareness about narcissistic abuse in India, making her a sought-after voice in conversations on trauma recovery, empowerment, and holistic healing.

🌐 Website: www.activateyou.in

About Ali Kessler: Ali Kessler is a writer, marketing professional, passionate parent advocate, and founder of Greyson’s Choice, a 501(c)(3) created to raise awareness about the risk of domestic abuse on children. Greyson’s Choice was founded by Ali Kessler in memory of her sweet, vibrant, and fearless 4.5-year-old son, Greyson, who was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide during an unsupervised, court-approved visit in Ft. Lauderdale, FL, in 2021. This came just hours after her petition for a domestic violence injunction was denied by a Broward County judge, citing that the “petitioner has failed to allege any overt acts by the respondent which would constitute domestic violence under Florida Statute.”

Ali’s advocacy efforts culminated in successfully passing Greyson’s Law during the 2023 legislative session. This bill now requires the court to consider threats against ex-partners or spouses when making child visitation and custody determinations in the court, expanding to include the following factors: evidence of domestic violence, whether a parent in the past or currently has reasonable cause to believe that they or a minor child is, or has been in imminent danger of becoming the victim of domestic/sexual violence by the other parent, even if no other legal action has been brought or is currently pending in court.

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