A husband hates the way his wife dresses on a daily bais. He states they have been married 22 years, and the last ten years she allowed her appearance to go. She walks around the home and town in sloppy attire, and her hair is always unkept.

the husband states mone is no problem. He feels her lack in appearance is causing him to lose interest and have resentment towards the marriage. They have three teenage children ages 16, 14, and 12 years of age. Should he divorce her? He asks "What is a husband to do?"

Do you feel there is more he is leaving out in his letter? Is he too critical of his wife and what she does in the home as a wife and mother of three teenage children?

Join me as I discuss what I think of his situation.

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Why are divorcess being preferred over those who are widows and widowers when it comes to dating? Do widows and widowers express a lack of enthusiasm to get back into the game of dating once losing a spouse? While divorcess find no issues when it comes to getting back to the dating game. They view their "singleness" in a whole different light. Or do they? What do you think?

Let's get into the lives of four individuals I recently spoke on a conference. Call with regarding their status as being single again after living witih someone they took vows to love for eternity.

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WHEN IT COMES RACE, EVERYONE HAS AN OPINION, BUT ARE THEY CORRECT IN THEIR ASSUMPTIONS? TONIGHT, WE HOPE THIS PODCAST SEGMENT WILL ENLIGHTEN AND EDUCATE THOSE WHO SAY IT IS WRONG FOR ONE TO CLASSIFY THEMSELVES OTHER THAN BEING 'WHITE' OR 'BLACK'.

THAT CLASSIFYING ONE' SELF AS 'OTHER' , 'BIRACIAL', 'MIXED-RACE' OR 'MULTIGENERATIONALLY MIXED' (MGM) IS A BLATANT MOVE TO ASSUME A NEW RACE.

TONIGHT MY GUEST ARE:

RICHARD MYLES, MUSIC & MOVIE PRODUCER, OF 17 ALBUMS, COUNSELOR, AND PSYCHIC MEDIUM.

PHILIP TIMOTHY ARNELL , AUTHOR OF THE MGM PERSPECTIVE; A GUIDE INTO THE MIXED WORLD, FORTUNATE MEMBER OF A CARIBBEAN DISAPORA, AND STILL "BAJAN" AFTER ALL THESE YEARS.

THEY SPEAK ON THE FALSITIES OF:

*THE 1-DROP RULE.

*THE DREADED QUESTION: WHAT ARE YOU?

*HOW ACCEPTING ONE'S GENETIC MAKEUP DOES NOT DIMINISH THEIR FULL IDENTITY.

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Tonight, we are dealing with liars and cheaters. What is the difference between habitual cheater and serial cheater? Can they change?

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Tonight, we are responding back to some of our listeners who have contacted us at HPN for some advice on dealing with their relationships and life situations. Let's jump right in:

Email #1-is from a husband whose wife is avoiding intimacy with him. She has even brought in a dog, but the dog is in the bed and hubby is finding hi8mself in the doghouse, more to say.

Email #2-deals with wife whose husband is becoming tangled into horoscopes and astrology by a fellow female co-waker. the wife seeks advice as to how to handle her stargazing husband.

Email #3- is from a lovelorn 13 year old girl who is competing for her booh's attention, but she has to get past the 15 year old vixen who has him in her sights. How is she (the 13 yr old) to compete to win him over?

Follow me as I read each one of their emjails and give them some sound advice, I think will benefit each of them.

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Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is harder than it seems.

Dr. MonaLisa Covington goes into detail in her book titled, 'Tears on My Pillow,' that explores the journey of her life through five relationships that end with deep emotional tears. She describes the healing process after the emotional drama and devastation caused by these men. She discovers an astonishing relationship with God, learning that before a single woman can find an honest relationship with a man, she must first love God and herself. She shares her journey of pain and joy as a single woman, and through a marriage that was controlled by her in-laws. She finally finds healing in her past. She endured the Gomer and Hosea relationship; through these five men, she was taught how to love again. She draws for the experiences of other and searches the Scriptures and God for the answers.

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Tonight we are dealing with several letters received from our listeners.

The first letter is from Janet, a mother of three sons. Her middle son has a habit of dating and getting into relationships with females that are somewhat questionable.

The second letter is from a young woman involved with a man for over six months and moves him into her life and her home. The situation has become a little "controlling."

The third and last letter is from a young jewish man named Isaiah. who married a gentile girl. While at her family's home he is confronted by nasty comments about his ethnicity from another guest. He questions if he should have spoken out in his defense.

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Tonight, we are continuing the conversation of being "mgm"(multi-generationally mixed), mixed, triracial, and biracial.

We are joined by Philip Timothy Arnell, the author of:

'The MGM Perspective: A gudieline into the Mixed World', 'Still Bajan: After All These Years' and the 'Fortunate Member of the Caribbean Disapora'.

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Intro and ending music title, 'Angel 27' is written and produced by: Richard Myles ( permission granted).