Épisodes

  • "Will Quitting My Job Bring Back My Spark?"
    Sep 16 2025
    (plus the final part of our creative process q&a) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 min
  • “My Friend Skipped My Dad’s Funeral For a Girls Trip”
    Sep 9 2025
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    1 h et 10 min
  • "Will I Regret Choosing My Girlfriend Over My Career?"
    Sep 2 2025
    This week's Hello Hayes asks: "Is it ever okay to pick love over career?" Let's discuss. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    42 min
  • “My Boyfriend Isn’t Close With His Family. Is That a Red Flag?”
    Aug 26 2025
    This week's Hello Hayes advice column: Our letter writer, a chronic overthinker, is "freaked out" about getting engaged because her boyfriend isn't as family oriented as she is. (Or is he?) We discuss: family dynamics and being "family oriented," getting engaged, relationship standards, and whether there's validity to the "80/20" rule. In the back half, we're getting a pulse check on generative AI. What are your feelings? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    43 min
  • "Should I Leave My Friend Group?"
    Aug 19 2025
    What to do when your friends feel like emotional strangers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 11 min
  • "I Don’t Want My Dad’s Wife at My Wedding. Am I Wrong?"
    Aug 12 2025
    What’s the right thing to do when you’ve kept the peace with someone your whole life… but now you don’t want them at your wedding? That’s the dilemma in this week’s Hello Hayes advice column. Let’s hear it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    43 min
  • "My Friendships Feel One-Sided. How Do I Become a Priority?"
    Aug 5 2025
    Let’s talk about reciprocity in friendship. In this episode, I answer a letter from someone who’s tired of always being the one to initiate. Then, in the second half, I dive into your rapid-fire questions — everything from how to support a friend who keeps making “disastrous” decisions to what to do when your friends just don’t seem to understand you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 7 min
  • "My Friends Don't Think I Should Get Married"
    Jul 29 2025
    Want advice? Send letters to hellohayesadvice@gmail.com Her friends say she’s too young to get married — but she’s never felt more ready. This week on Hello Hayes, we unpack what to do when the people closest to you don’t support your biggest life decision yet. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 16 min