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Content note: this episode includes grief, suicide loss, racism, obstetric violence, medical emergencies, family conflict and birth trauma. Please care for your heart while you listen.

In this season finale of Hot and Brave, Bianca takes you behind the glossy Instagram version of birthwork and into the real stories that shaped her as a doula.

She shares ten client stories from her early years, including the time she walked into a termination expecting a joyful gender reveal, the birth she attended too soon after her dad’s death by suicide, navigating clients who repeatedly tested her boundaries, witnessing blatant medical racism and obstetric violence, missing the signs of active substance use in a vulnerable family, and the moment she realized her queerness and politics could never be separated from her work.

This is a tender, unfiltered look at shame, regret, growth and the messy middle of learning on the job. Bianca talks about how inadequate weekend trainings left her under prepared for real life complexity, how those gaps fueled the creation of bebo mia, and why autonomy, anti oppression and boundaries are now at the center of everything she teaches.

If you have ever replayed a birth in your mind and wished you had done it differently, this episode is here so you feel less alone.

It is also Black Friday week at bebomia. Head to bebomia.com/bf2025 for 40% off trainings and digital programs, free classes, games and prizes, and to join our full spectrum doula community.

⭐️ We have some links for you which you will LOVE! ⭐️

👉 bebomia.com/get-more-clients-challenge

Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE CODE BIRTHBIRD for $350 off

NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula use the code FIRST200 for $200 off!

Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building

FREE Ultimate Ebook all about becoming a doula - get it here!

www.bebomia.com/doulaclub 💥 Get your free access to the Doula Business School in our club membership!

www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽

bebomia.com/bizshop/ 😎 Grow your business fast!

www.bebomia.com/shop New Doula swag!!

7 Simple Steps to Double your Client Base 👈🏽 new course alert this week 💥 Use code SEVEN

Run for Nov 17 and 25th

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In this episode, Bianca breaks down the three pillars every doula needs to build a sustainable, heart centered business: clarity, visibility, and community. She shares the stories we all live through in that first uncertain year, the places we get stuck, and the quiet shame that grows when nobody has ever taught us the basics of business or mission building.

You will learn the difference between selling and solving, why weekend trainings leave out the most essential pieces of doula work, and how clarity becomes an act of compassion for the clients who need you. This is a grounding, honest, and deeply practical episode for every new doula or doula in a rebuild season.

Early bird is open for the MSP full spectrum doula training and the code birthbird saves you 350 dollars. And the Get More Clients Challenge has begun, but there is still time to jump in and watch the Day 1 replay.

This episode will hold you, challenge you, and remind you that you are more ready than you think.

⭐️ We have some links for you which you will LOVE! ⭐️

👉 bebomia.com/get-more-clients-challenge

Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE CODE BIRTHBIRD for $350 off

NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula use the code FIRST200 for $200 off!

Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building

FREE Ultimate Ebook all about becoming a doula - get it here!

www.bebomia.com/doulaclub 💥 Get your free access to the Doula Business School in our club membership!

www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽

bebomia.com/bizshop/ 😎 Grow your business fast!

www.bebomia.com/shop New Doula swag!!

7 Simple Steps to Double your Client Base 👈🏽 new course alert this week 💥 Use code SEVEN

Run for Nov 17 and 25th

Support the show

www.bebomia.com

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, Pinterest, LinkedIn or Twitter.

Send us a text

Most doulas think they don’t have an audience... but you already have a network filled with potential clients who know, like, and trust you.

In this week’s Hot + Brave, Bianca shares how to tap into your existing community to fill your roster with dream clients without feeling salesy or awkward. Learn how to reach out authentically, reframe visibility as care work, and finally stop apologizing for wanting to be seen.

This episode is your pep talk, mindset reset, and a preview of what we’ll be doing together inside the Get More Clients Challenge, starting next week.
Because your next client probably will not come from an ad or a hashtag, they will come from your cousin’s coworker who’s been waiting for your support.

⭐️ We have some links for you which you will LOVE! ⭐️

👉 bebomia.com/get-more-clients-challenge

Grab your doula training spot here (heyyy there's payment plans) 📚 USE CODE BIRTHBIRD for $350 off

NEW BIRTH DOULA COURSE - www.bebomia.com/birthdoula use the code FIRST200 for $200 off!

Community Building Tool ONLY $10 - www.bebomia.com/community-building

FREE Ultimate Ebook all about becoming a doula - get it here!

www.bebomia.com/doulaclub 💥 Get your free access to the Doula Business School in our club membership!

www.bebomia.com/freewebinar Free doula workshop and discount code 👍🏽

bebomia.com/bizshop/ 😎 Grow your business fast!

www.bebomia.com/shop New Doula swag!!

7 Simple Steps to Double your Client Base 👈🏽 new course alert this week 💥 Use code SEVEN

Run for Nov 17 and 25th

Support the show

www.bebomia.com

Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, Pinterest, LinkedIn or Twitter.