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This episode is a masterclass in doing the work even when you feel like absolute garbage. Kathy Charles didn’t come into my program feeling motivated, hopeful, or even remotely excited about fitness. She came in depressed, deep in menopause, dealing with grief, vertigo, an injured knee, and the kind of emotional exhaustion that makes brushing your hair feel optional.

And yet… she showed up.

Kathy didn’t wake up one day magically inspired. She started when she was grumpy, resistant, and fully prepared to hate me during workouts. She modified everything. She half-assed it when that was all she had. She swore at the screen. And she kept going anyway.

In this conversation, Kathy shares how therapy helped clear what she calls the “traffic jam” in her brain so she could start taking care of herself again, why mental health support wasn’t optional for her progress, and how structure, not motivation, helped her rebuild trust with herself.

She lost 50 pounds and 44 inches, yes. But more importantly, she got her energy, confidence, and sense of badassness back. She zip-lines. She shovels snow. She plans bike trips. She lives in a body she trusts again.

This episode is proof that you don’t need to feel good to start. You just need to start.

What’s Inside:

• You don’t need motivation. You need momentum. Kathy started when she felt awful and let consistency do the heavy lifting.
• Mental health and physical health are not separate. Therapy cleared the path so habits could stick.
• Modifying is not failing. It is how progress actually happens, especially when your body has limits.
• Habits don’t disappear when life gets hard. They are what carry you through it.

Kathy’s story is such a powerful reminder that progress doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from showing up as you are, even when you’re cranky, tired, grieving, or over it. You don’t need to do it all. You just need to keep doing something.
If this episode hit home for you, DM me on Instagram and tell me what your version of a “grumpy workout” looks like right now. I want to hear it.

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